Think on These Things
Chapter 12
WE HAVE BEEN discussing the question of revolt within the
prison: how all reformers, idealists, and others who are
incessantly active in producing certain results, are always
revolting within the walls of their own conditioning, within the
walls of their own social structure, within the cultural pattern
of civilization which is an expression of the collective will of
the many. I think it would now be worth while if we could see
what confidence is and how it comes about.
Through initiative there comes about confidence; but initiative
within the pattern only brings self-confidence, which is
entirely different from confidence without the self. Do you know
what it means to have confidence? If you do something with your
own hands, if you plant a tree and see it grow, if you paint a
picture, or write a poem, or, when you are older, build a bridge
or run some administrative job extremely well, it gives you
confidence that you are able to do something. But, you see,
confidence as we know it now is always within the prison, the
prison which society - whether communist, Hindu, or Christian -
has built around us. Initiative within the prison does create a
certain confidence, because you feel you can do things: you can
design a motor, be a very good doctor, an excellent scientist,
and so on. But this feeling of confidence which comes with the
capacity to succeed within the social structure, or to reform,
to give more light, to decorate the interior of the prison is
really self-confidence; you know you can do something, and you
feel important in doing it, Whereas, when through investigating,
through understanding, you break away from the social structure
of which you are a part, there comes an entirely different kind
of confidence which is without the sense of self-importance; and
if we can understand the difference between these two - between
self-confidence, and confidence without the self - I think it
will have great significance in our life.
When you play a game very well, like badminton, cricket, or
football, you have a certain sense of confidence, have you not?
It gives you the feeling that you are pretty good at it. If you
are quick at solving mathematical problems, that also breeds a
sense of self-assurance. When confidence is born of action
within the social structure, there always goes with it a strange
arrogance, does there not? The confidence of a man who can do
things, who is capable of achieving results, is always coloured
by this arrogance of the self, the feeling, "It is I who do it".
So, in the very act of achieving a result, of bringing about a
social reform within the prison, there is the arrogance of the
self, the feeling that I have done it, that my ideal is
important, that my group has succeeded. This sense of the `me'
and the `mine' always goes with the confidence that expresses
itself within the social prison.
Have you not noticed how arrogant idealists are? The political
leaders who bring about certain results, who achieve great
reforms - have you not noticed that they are full of themselves,
puffed up with their ideals and their achievements? In their own
estimation they are very important. Read a few of the political
speeches, watch some of these people who call themselves
reformers, and you will see that in the very process of
reformation they are cultivating their own ego; their reforms,
however extensive, are still within the prison, therefore they
are destructive and ultimately bring more misery and conflict to
man.
Now, if you can see through this whole social structure, the
cultural pattern of the collective will which we call
civilization - if you can understand all that and break away
from it, break through the prison walls of your particular
society, whether Hindu, communist, or Christian, then you will
find that there comes a confidence which is not tainted with the
sense of arrogance. It is the confidence of innocence. It is
like the confidence of a child who is so completely innocent he
will try anything. It is this innocent confidence that will
bring about a new civilization; but this innocent confidence
cannot come into being as long as you remain within the social
pattern.
Please do listen to this carefully. The speaker is not in the
least important, but it is very important for you to understand
the truth of what is being said. After all, that is education,
is it not? The function of education is not to make you fit into
the social pattern; on the contrary, it is to help you to
understand completely, deeply, fully and thereby break away from
the social pattern, so that you are an individual without that
arrogance of the self, but you have confidence because you are
really innocent.
Is it not a great tragedy that almost all of us are only
concerned either with how to fit into society, or how to reform
it? Have you noticed that most of the questions you have asked
reflect this attitude? You are saying, in effect, "How can I fit
into society? What will my father and mother say, and what will
happen to me if I don't?" Such an attitude destroys whatever
confidence, whatever initiative you have. And you leave school
and college like so many automatons, highly efficient perhaps,
but without any creative flame. That is why it is so important
to understand the society, the environment in which one lives,
and, in that very process of understanding, break away from it.
You see, this is a problem all over the world. Man is seeking a
new response, a new approach to life, because the old ways are
decaying, whether in Europe, in Russia, or here. Life is a
continual challenge, and merely to try to bring about a better
economic order is not a total response to that challenge, which
is always new; and when cultures, peoples, civilizations are
incapable of responding totally to the challenge of the new,
they are destroyed.
Unless you are properly educated, unless you have this
extraordinary confidence of innocence, you are inevitably going
to be absorbed by the collective and lost in mediocrity. You
will put some letters after your name, you will be married, have
children, and that will be the end of you.
You see, most of us are frightened. Your parents are frightened,
your educators are frightened, the governments and religions are
frightened of your becoming a total individual, because they all
want you to remain safely within the prison of environmental and
cultural influences. But it is only the individuals who break
through the social pattern by understanding it, and who are
therefore not bound by the conditioning of their own minds - it
is only such people who can bring about a new civilization, not
the people who merely conform, or who resist one particular
pattern because they are shaped by another. The search for God
or truth does not lie within the prison, but rather in
understanding the prison and breaking through its walls - and
this very movement towards freedom creates a new culture, a
different world.
Questioner: Sir, why do we want to have a companion?
Krishnamurti: A girl asks why we want a companion. Why does one
want a companion? Can you live alone in this world without a
husband or a wife, without children, without friends? Most
people cannot live alone, therefore they need companions. It
requires enormous intelligence to be alone; and you must be
alone to find God, truth. It is nice to have a companion, a
husband or a wife, and also to have babies; but you see, we get
lost in all that, we get lost in the family, in the job, in the
dull, monotonous routine of a decaying existence. We get used to
it, and then the thought of living alone becomes dreadful,
something to be afraid of. Most of us have put all our faith in
one thing, all our eggs in one basket, and our lives have no
richness apart from our companions, apart from our families and
our jobs. But if there is a richness in one's life - not the
richness of money or knowledge, which anyone can acquire, but
that richness which is the movement of reality with no beginning
and no ending - then companionship becomes a secondary matter.
But, you see, you are not educated to be alone. Do you ever go
out for a walk by yourself? It is very important to go out
alone, to sit under a tree - not with a book, not with a
companion, but by yourself - and observe the falling of a leaf,
hear the lapping of the water, the fisherman's song, watch the
flight of a bird, and of your own thoughts as they chase each
other across the space of your mind. If you are able to be alone
and watch these things, then you will discover extraordinary
riches which no government can tax, no human agency can corrupt,
and which can never be destroyed.
Questioner: Is it your hobby to give lectures? Don't you get
tired of talking? Why are you doing it?
Krishnamurti: I am glad you asked that question. You know, if
you love something, you never get tired of it - I mean love in
which there is no seeking of a result, no wanting something out
of it. When you love something, it is not self-fulfilment,
therefore there is no disappointment, there is no end. Why am I
doing this? You might as well ask why the rose blooms, why the
jasmine gives its scent, or why the bird flies.
You see, I have tried not talking, to find out what happens if I
don't talk. That is all right too. Do you understand? If you are
talking because you are getting something out of it - money, a
reward, a sense of your own importance - then there is
weariness, then your talking is destructive, it has no meaning
because it is only self-fulfilment; but if there is love in your
heart, and your heart is not filled with the things of the mind,
then it is like a fountain, like a spring that is timelessly
giving fresh water.
Questioner: When I love a person and he gets angry, why is his
anger so intense?
Krishnamurti: First of all, do you love anybody? Do you know
what it is to love? It is to give completely your mind your
heart, your whole being and not ask a thing in return not put
out a begging bowl to receive love. Do you understand? When
there is that kind of love, is there anger? And why do we get
angry when we love somebody with the ordinary, so-called love?
It is because we are not getting something we expect from that
person, is it not? I love my wife or husband, my son or
daughter, but the moment they do something `wrong' I get angry.
Why?
Why does the father get angry with his son or daughter? Because
he wants the child to be or do something, to fit into a certain
pattern, and the child rebels. Parents try to fulfil, to
immortalize themselves through their property, through their
children and, when the child does something of which they
disapprove, they get violently angry. They have an ideal of what
the child should be, and through that ideal they are fulfilling
themselves; and they get angry when the child does not fit into
the pattern which is their fulfilment.
Have you noticed how angry you sometimes get with a friend of
yours? It is the same process going on. You are expecting
something from him, and when that expectation is not fulfilled
you are disappointed - which means, really, that inwardly,
psychologically you are depending on that person. So wherever
there is psychological dependence, there must be frustration;
and frustration inevitably breeds anger, bitterness, jealousy,
and various other forms of conflict. That is why it is very
important, especially while you are young, to love something
with your whole being - a tree, an animal, your teacher, your
parent - for then you will find out for yourself what it is to
be without conflict, without fear.
But you see, the educator is generally concerned about himself,
he is caught up in his personal worries about his family, his
money, his position. He has no love in his heart, and this is
one of the difficulties in education. You may have love in your
heart, because to love is a natural thing when one is young; but
it is soon destroyed by the parents, by the educator, by the
social environment. To maintain that innocence, that love which
is the perfume of life, is extraordinarily arduous; it requires
a great deal of intelligence, insight.
Questioner: How can the mind go beyond its hindrances?
Krishnamurti: To go beyond its hindrances, the mind must first
be aware of them, must it not? You must know the limitations,
the boundaries, the frontiers of your own mind; but very few of
us know them. We say that we do, but it is merely a verbal
assertion. We never say, "Here is a barrier, a bondage within
me, and I want to understand it; therefore I am going to be
cognizant of it, see how it came into being and the whole nature
of it". If one knows what the disease is, there is a possibility
of curing it. But to know the disease, to know the particular
limitation, bondage or hindrance of the mind, and to understand
it, one must not condemn it, one must not say it is right or
wrong. One must observe it without having an opinion, a
prejudice about it - which is extraordinarily difficult, because
we are brought up to condemn.
To understand a child, there must be no condemnation. To condemn
him has no meaning. You have to watch him when he is playing,
crying, eating, you have to observe him in all his moods; but
you cannot do this if you say he is ugly, he is stupid, he is
this or that. Similarly, if one can watch the hindrances of the
mind, not only the superficial hindrances but also the deeper
hindrances in the unconscious - watch them without condemnation
- then the mind can go beyond them; and that very going beyond
is a movement towards truth.
Questioner: Why has God created so many men and women in the
world?
Krishnamurti: Why do you take it for granted that God has
created us? There is a very simple explanation: the biological
instinct. Instinct, desire, passion, lust are all part of life.
If you say, "Life is God", then that is a different matter. Then
God is everything, including passion, lust, envy, fear. All
these factors have gone to produce in the world an overwhelming
number of men and women, so there is the problem of
overpopulation, which is one of the curses of this land. But you
see, this problem is not so easily solved. There are various
urges and compulsions which man is heir to and, without
understanding that whole complex process, merely to try to
regulate the birth rate has not much significance. We have made
a mess of this world, each one of us, because we don't know what
living is. Living is not this tawdry, mediocre, disciplined
thing which we call our existence. Living is something entirely
different; it is abundantly rich, timelessly changing, and as
long as we don't understand that eternal movement, our lives are
bound to have very little meaning.
Chapter 13
RAIN ON DRY land is an extraordinary thing, is it not? It washes
the leaves clean, the earth is refreshed. And I think we all
ought to wash our minds completely clean, as the trees are
washed by the rain, because they are so heavily laden with the
dust of many centuries, the dust of what we call knowledge,
experience. If you and I would cleanse the mind every day, free
it of yesterday's reminiscences, each one of us would then have
a fresh mind, a mind capable of dealing with the many problems
of existence.
Now, one of the great problems that is disturbing the world is
what is called equality. In one sense there is no such thing as
equality, because we all have many different capacities; but we
are discussing equality in the sense that all people should be
treated alike. In a school, for example, the positions of the
principal, the teachers and the house parents are merely jobs,
functions; but, you see, with certain jobs or functions goes
what is called status, and status is respected because it
implies power, prestige, it means being in a position to tell
people off, to order people about, to give jobs to one's friends
and the members of one's family. So with function goes status;
but if we could remove this whole idea of status, of power, of
position, prestige, of giving benefits to others, then function
would have quite a different and simple meaning, would it not?
Then, whether people were governors, prime ministers, cooks, or
poor teachers, they would all be treated with the same respect
because they are all performing a different but necessary
function in society.
Do you know what would happen, especially in a school, if we
could really remove from function the whole sense of power, of
position, prestige; the feeling, "I am the Head, I am
important"? We would all be living in quite a different
atmosphere, would we not? There would be no authority in the
sense of the high and the low, the big man and the little man,
and therefore there would be freedom. And it is very important
that we create such an atmosphere in the school, an atmosphere
of freedom in which there is love, in which each one feels a
tremendous sense of confidence; because, you see, confidence
comes when you feel completely at home, secure. Do you feel at
ease in your own home if your father, your mother and your
grandmother are constantly telling you what to do so that you
gradually lose all confidence in doing anything by yourself? As
you grow up you must be able to discuss, to find out what you
think is true and stick to it. You must be able to stand by
something which you feel is right, even though it brings pain,
suffering, loss of money, and all the rest of it; and for that
you must feel, while you are young, completely secure and at
ease.
Most young people don't feel secure because they are frightened.
They are afraid of their elders, of their teachers, of their
mothers and fathers, so they never really feel at home. But when
you do feel at home, there happens a very strange thing. When
you can go to your room, lock the door and be there by yourself
unnoticed, with no one telling you what to do, you feel
completely secure; and then you begin to flower, to understand,
to unfold. To help you unfold is the function of a school; and
if it does not help you to unfold, it is no school at all.
When you feel at home in a place in the sense that you feel
secure, not beaten down, not compelled to do this or that, when
you feel very happy, completely at ease, then you are not
naughty, are you? When you are really happy, you don't want to
hurt anybody, you don't want to destroy anything. But to make
the student feel completely happy is extraordinarily difficult,
because he comes to the school with an idea that the principal,
the teachers and the house parents are going to tell him what to
do and push him around, and hence there is fear.
Most of you come from homes or from schools in which you have
been educated to respect status. Your father and mother have
status, the principal has status, so you come here with fear,
respecting status. But we must create in the school a real
atmosphere of freedom, and that can come about only when there
is function without status, and therefore a feeling of equality.
The real concern of right education is to help you to be a
vital, sensitive human being, one who is not afraid and who has
no false sense of respect because of status.
Questioner: Why do we find pleasure in our games and not in our
studies?
Krishnamurti: For the very simple reason that your teachers do
not know how to teach. That is all, there is no very complicated
reason for it. You know, if a teacher loves mathematics, or
history, or whatever it is he teaches, then you also will love
that subject, because love of something communicates itself.
Don't you know that? If a musician loves to sing and his whole
being is in it, doesn't that feeling communicate itself to you
who are listening? You feel that you too would like to learn how
to sing. But most educators don't love their subject; it has
become a bore to them, a routine through which they have to go
in order to earn a living. If your teachers really loved to
teach, do you know what would happen to you? You would be
extraordinary human beings. You would love not only your games
and your studies, but also the flowers, the river, the birds,
the earth, because you would have this thing vibrating in your
hearts; and you would learn much more quickly, your minds would
be excellent and not mediocre.
That is why it is very important to educate the educator - which
is very difficult, because most educators are already well
settled in their habits. But habit does not rest so heavily on
the young; and if you love even one thing for itself - if you
really love your games, or mathematics, or history, or painting,
or singing - then you will find that intellectually you are
alert, vital, and you will be very good in all your studies.
After all, the mind wants to inquire, to know, because it is
curious; but that curiosity is destroyed by the wrong kind of
education. Therefore it is not only the student who must be
educated, but also the teacher. Living is itself a process of
education, a process of learning. There is an end to
examinations, but there is no end to learning and you can learn
from everything if your mind is curious, alert.
Questioner: You have said that when one sees something to be
false, that false thing drops away. I daily see that smoking is
false, but it does not drop away.
Krishnamurti: Have you ever watched grown-up people smoking,
either your parents, your teachers, your neighbours, or somebody
else? It has become a habit with them, has it not? They go on
smoking day after day, year in and year out, and they have
become slaves to the habit. Many of them realize how stupid it
is to be a slave to something, and they fight the habit, they
discipline themselves against it, they resist it, they try in
all kinds of ways to get rid of it. But, you see, habit is a
dead thing, it is an action which has become automatic, and the
more one fights it the more strength one gives to it. But if the
person who smokes becomes conscious of his habit, if he becomes
aware of putting his hand into his pocket, bringing out the
cigarette, tapping it, putting it in his mouth, lighting it and
taking the first puff - if each time he goes through this
routine he simply watches it without condemnation, without
saying how terrible it is to smoke, then he is not giving new
vitality to that particular habit. But really to drop something
which has become a habit, you have to investigate it much more,
which means going into the whole problem of why the mind
cultivates habit - that is, why the mind is inattentive. If you
clean your teeth every day while looking out of the window, the
cleaning of your teeth becomes a habit; but if you always clean
your teeth very carefully, giving your whole attention to it,
then it does not become a habit, a routine that is thoughtlessly
repeated.
Experiment with this, observe how the mind wants to go to sleep
through habit and then remain undisturbed. Most people's minds
are always functioning in the groove of habit, and as we grow
older it gets worse. Probably you have already acquired dozens
of habits. You are afraid of what will happen if you don't do as
your parents say, if you don't marry as your father wants you
to, so your mind is already functioning in a groove; and when
you function in a groove, though you may be only ten or fifteen,
you are already old, inwardly decaying. You may have a good
body, but nothing else. Your body may be young and straight, but
your mind is burdened with its own weight.
So it is very important to understand the whole problem of why
the mind always dwells in habits, runs in grooves, why it moves
along a particular set of rails like a streetcar and is afraid
to question, to inquire. If you say, "My father is a Sikh,
therefore I am a Sikh and I am going to grow my hair, wear a
turban" - If you say that without inquiring, without
questioning, without any thought of breaking away, then you are
like a machine. Smoking also makes you like a machine, a slave
to habit, and it is only when you understand all this that the
mind becomes fresh, young, active, alive, so that every day is a
new day, every dawn reflected on the river is a joyous thing to
behold.
Questioner: Why are we afraid when some of our elders are
serious? And what makes them so serious?
Krishnamurti: Have you ever thought about what it means to be
serious? Are you ever serious? Are you always gay, always
cheerful, laughing, or are there moments when you are quiet,
serious - not serious about something, but just serious? And why
should one be afraid when older people are serious? What is
there to be afraid of? Are you afraid they may see something in
you which you don't like in yourself? You see, most of us don't
think about these matters; if we are afraid in the presence of a
grave or serious older person, we don't inquire into it, we
don't ask ourselves, "Why am I afraid?"
Now, what is it to be serious? Let us find out. You may be
serious about very superficial things. When buying a sari, for
example, you may give your whole attention to it, worry about
it, go to ten different shops and spend all morning looking at
various patterns. That is also called being serious; but such a
person is serious only superficially. Then you can be serious
about going to the temple every day, placing a garland there,
giving money to the priests; but all that is a very false thing,
is it not? Because truth or God is not in any temple. And you
can be very serious about nationalism, which is another false
thing.
Do you know what nationalism is? It is the feeling, "My India,
my country, right or wrong", or the feeling that India has vast
treasures of spiritual knowledge and is therefore greater than
any other nation. When we identify ourselves with a particular
country and feel proud of it, we bring about nationalism in the
world. Nationalism is a false god, but millions of people are
very serious about it; they will go to war, destroy, kill or be
killed in the name of their country, and this kind of
seriousness is used and exploited by the politicians.
So you can be serious about false things. But if you really
begin to inquire into what it means to be serious, then you will
find that there is a seriousness which is not measured by the
activity of the false or shaped by a particular pattern - a
seriousness which comes into being when the mind is not pursuing
a result, an end.
Questioner: What is destiny?
Krishnamurti: Do you really want to go into this problem? To ask
a question is the easiest thing in the world, but your question
has meaning only if it affects you directly so that you are very
serious about it. Have you noticed how many people lose interest
once they have asked their question? The other day a man put a
question and then began to yawn, scratch his head and talk to
his neighbour; he had completely lost interest. So I suggest
that you don't ask a question unless you are really serious
about it.
This problem of what is destiny is very difficult and complex.
You see, if a cause is set going it must inevitably produce a
result. If a vast number of people, whether Russians, Americans,
or Hindus, prepare for war, their destiny is war; though they
may say they want peace and are preparing only for their own
defence, they have set in motion causes which bring about war.
Similarly, when millions of people have for centuries taken part
in the development of a certain civilization or culture, they
have set going a movement in which individual human beings are
caught up and swept along, whether they like it or not; and this
whole process of being caught up in and swept along by a
particular stream of culture or civilization may be called
destiny.
After all, if you are born as the son of a lawyer who insists
that you also become a lawyer, and if you comply with his wishes
even though you would prefer to do something else, then your
destiny is obviously to become a lawyer. But if you refuse to
become a lawyer, if you insist upon doing that which you feel to
be the true thing for you which is what you really love to do -
it may be writing, painting, or having no money and begging -
then you have stepped out of the stream, you have broken away
from the destiny which your father intended for you. It is the
same with a culture or civilization.
That is why it is very important that we should be rightly
educated - educated not to be smothered by tradition, not to
fall into the destiny of a particular racial, cultural or family
group, educated not to become mechanical beings moving towards a
predetermined end. The man who understands this whole process,
who breaks away from it and stands alone, creates his own
momentum; and if his action is a breaking away from the false
towards the truth, then that momentum itself becomes the truth.
Such men are free of destiny.
Chapter 14
HAVE YOU EVER considered why we are disciplined, or why we
discipline ourselves? Political parties all over the world
insist that the party discipline be followed. Your parents, your
teachers, the society around you - they all tell you that you
must be disciplined, controlled. Why? And is there really any
necessity for discipline at all? I know we are accustomed to
think that discipline is necessary - the discipline imposed
either by society, or by a religious teacher, or by a particular
moral code, or by our own experience. The ambitious man who
wants to achieve, who wants to make a lot of money, who wants to
be a great politician - his very ambition becomes the means of
his own discipline. So everyone around you says that discipline
is necessary: you must go to bed and get up at a certain hour,
you must study, pass examinations, obey your father and mother,
and so on.
Now, why should you be disciplined at all? What does discipline
mean? It means adjusting yourself to something, does it not? To
adjust your thinking to what other people say, to resist some
forms of desire and accept others, to comply with this practice
and not with that, to conform, to suppress, to follow, not only
on the surface of the mind, but also deep down - all this is
implied in discipline. And for centuries, age after age, we have
been told by teachers, gurus, priests, politicians, kings,
lawyers, by the society in which we live, that there must be
discipline.
So, I am asking myself - and I hope you too are asking yourself
- whether discipline is necessary at all, and whether there is
not an entirely different approach to this problem? I think
there is a different approach, and this is the real issue which
is confronting not only the schools but the whole world. You
see, it is generally accepted that, in order to be efficient,
you must be disciplined, either by a moral code, a political
creed, or by being trained to work like a machine in a factory;
but this very process of discipline is making the mind dull
through conformity.
Now, does discipline set you free, or does it make you conform
to an ideological pattern, whether it be the utopian pattern of
communism, or some kind of moral or religious pattern? Can
discipline ever set you free? Having bound you, made you a
prisoner, as all forms of discipline do, can it then let you go?
How can it? Or is there a different approach altogether - which
is to awaken a really deep insight into the whole problem of
discipline? That is, can you, the individual, have only one
desire and not two or many conflicting desires? Do you
understand what I mean? The moment you have two, three, or ten
desires, you have the problem of discipline, have you not? You
want to be rich, to have cars, houses, and at the same time you
want to renounce these things because you think that to possess
little or nothing is moral, ethical, religious. And is it
possible to be educated in the right way so that one's whole
being is integrated, without contradiction, and therefore
without the need of discipline? To be integrated implies a sense
of freedom, and when this integration is taking place there is
surely no need for discipline. Integration means being one thing
totally on all levels at the same time.
You see, if we could have right education from the very
tenderest age, it would bring about a state in which there is no
contradiction at all, either within or without; and then there
would be no need for discipline or compulsion because you would
be doing something completely, freely, with your whole being.
Discipline arises only when there is a contradiction. The
politicians, the governments, the organized religions want you
to have only one way of thinking, because if they can make you a
complete communist, a complete Catholic, or whatever it is, then
you are not a problem, you simply believe and work like a
machine; then there is no contradiction because you just follow.
But all following is destructive because it is mechanical, it is
mere conformity in which there is no creative release.
Now, can we bring about, from the tenderest age, a sense of
complete security, a feeling of being at home, so that in you
there is no struggle to be this and not to be that? Because the
moment there is an inward struggle there is conflict, and to
overcome that conflict there must be discipline. Whereas, if you
are rightly educated, then everything that you do is an
integrated action; there is no contradiction and hence no
compulsive action. As long as there is no integration there must
be discipline, but discipline is destructive because it does not
lead to freedom.
To be integrated does not demand any form of discipline. That
is, if I am doing what is good, what is intrinsically true, what
is really beautiful, doing it with my whole being, then there is
no contradiction in me and I am not merely conforming to
something. If what I am doing is totally good, right in itself -
not right according to some Hindu tradition or communist theory,
but timelessly right under all circumstances - then I am an
integrated human being and have no need for discipline. And is
it not the function of a school to bring about in you this sense
of integrated confidence so that what you are doing is not
merely what you wish to do, but that which is fundamentally
right and good, everlastingly true? you love there is no need
for discipline, is there? Love brings its own creative
understanding, therefore there is no resistance, no conflict;
but to love with such complete integration is possible only when
you feel deeply secure, completely at home, especially while you
are young. This means, really, that the educator and the student
must have abounding confidence in each other, otherwise we shall
create a society which will be as ugly and destructive as the
present one. If we can understand the significance of completely
integrated action in which there is no contradiction, and
therefore no need for discipline, then I think we shall bring
about a totally different kind of culture, a new civilization.
But if we merely resist, suppress, then what is suppressed will
inevitably rebound in other directions and set going various
mischievous activities and destructive events.
So it is very important to understand this whole question of
discipline. To me, discipline is something altogether ugly; it
is not creative, it is destructive. But merely to stop there,
with a statement of that kind, may seem to imply that you can do
whatever you like. On the contrary, a man who loves does not do
whatever he likes. It is love alone that leads to right action.
What brings order in the world is to love and let love do what
it will.
Questioner: Why do we hate the poor?
Krishnamurti: Do you really hate the poor? I am not condemning
you; I am just asking, do you really hate the poor? And if you
do, why? Is it because you also may be poor one day, and
imagining your own plight then, you reject it? Or is it that you
dislike the sordid, dirty, unkempt existence of the poor?
Disliking untidiness, disorder, squalor, filth, you say, "I
don't want to have anything to do with the poor." Is that it?
But who has created poverty, squalor and disorder in the world?
You, your parents, your government - our whole society has
created them; because, you see, we have no love in our hearts.
We love neither our children nor our neighbours, neither the
living nor the dead. We have no love for anything at all. The
politicians are not going to eradicate all this misery and
ugliness in the world, any more than the religions and the
reformers will, because they are only concerned with a little
patchwork here and there; but if there were love, then all these
ugly things would disappear tomorrow.
Do you love anything? Do you know what it is to love? You know,
when you love something completely, with your whole being, that
love is not sentimental, it is not duty, it is not divided as
physical or divine. Do you love anyone or anything with your
whole being - your parents, a friend, your dog, a tree? Do you?
I am afraid you don't. That is why you have vast spaces in your
being in which there is ugliness, hate, envy. You see, the man
who loves has no room for anything else. We should really spend
our time discussing all this and finding out how to remove the
things that are so cluttering our minds that we cannot love; for
it is only when we love that we can be free and happy. It is
only people who are loving, vital, happy, that can create a new
world - not the politicians, not the reformers or the few
ideological saints.
Questioner: You talk about truth goodness and integration, which
implies that on the other side there is untruth, evil and
disintegration. So how can one be true, good and integrated
without discipline?
Krishnamurti: In other words, being envious, how can one be free
of envy without discipline? I think it is very important to
understand the question itself; because the answer is in the
question, it is not apart from the question.
Do you know what envy means? You are nice looking, you are
finely dressed, or wear a beautiful turban or sari, and I also
want to dress like that; but I cannot, so I am envious. I am
envious because I want what you have; I want to be different
from what I am.
I am envious because I want to be as beautiful as you are; I
want to have the fine clothes, the elegant house, the high
position that you have. Being dissatisfied with what I am, I
want to be like you; but, if I understood my dissatisfaction and
its cause, then I would not want to be like you or long for the
things that you have. In other words, if once I begin to
understand what I am, then I shall never compare myself with
another or be envious of anyone. Envy arises because I want to
change myself and become like somebody else. But if I say,
"Whatever I am, that I want to understand", then envy is gone;
then there is no need of discipline, and out of the
understanding of what I am comes integration.
Our education, our environment, our whole culture insists that
we must become something. Our philosophies, our religions and
sacred books all say the same thing. But now I see that the very
process of becoming something implies envy, which means that I
am not satisfied with being what I am; and I want to understand
what I am, I want to find out why I am always comparing myself
with another, trying to become something; and in understanding
what I am there is no need for discipline. In the process of
that understanding, integration comes into being. The
contradiction in me yields to the understanding of myself, and
this in turn brings an action which is integral, whole.
Questioner: What is power?
Krishnamurti: There is mechanical power, the power produced by
the internal combustion engine, by steam, or by electricity.
There is the power that dwells in a tree, that causes the sap to
flow, that creates the leaf. There is the power to think very
clearly, the power to love, the power to hate, the power of a
dictator, the power to exploit people in the name of God, in the
name of the Masters, in the name of a country. These are all
forms of power.
Now, power as electricity or light, atomic power, and so on -
all such forms of power are good in themselves, are they not?
But the power of the mind that uses them for the purposes of
aggression and tyranny, to gain something for itself - such
power is evil under all circumstances. The head of any society,
church or religious group who has power over other people is an
evil person, because he is controlling, shaping, guiding others
without knowing where he himself is going. This is true not only
of the big organizations, but of the little societies all over
the world. The moment a person is clear, unconfused, he ceases
to be a leader and therefore he has no power.
So it is very important to understand why the human mind demands
to have power over others. The parents have power over their
children, the wife over the husband, or the husband over the
wife. Beginning in the small family, the evil extends until it
becomes the tyranny of governments, of political leaders and
religious interpreters. And can one live without this hunger for
power, without wanting to influence or exploit people, without
wanting power for oneself, or for a group or a nation, or for a
Master or a saint? All such forms of power are destructive, they
bring misery to man. Whereas, to be really kind, to be
considerate, to love - this is a strange thing, it has its own
timeless effect. Love is its own eternity, and where there is
love there is no evil power.
Questioner: Why do we seek fame?
Krishnamurti: Have you ever thought about it? We want to be
famous as a writer, as a poet, as a painter, as a politician, as
a singer, or what you will. Why? Because we really don't love
what we are doing. If you loved to sing, or to paint, or to
write poems - if you really loved it - you would not be
concerned with whether you are famous or not. To want to be
famous is tawdry, trivial, stupid, it has no meaning; but,
because we don't love what we are doing, we want to enrich
ourselves with fame. Our present education is rotten because it
teaches us to love success and not what we are doing. The result
has become more important than the action.
You know, it is good to hide your brilliance under a bushel, to
be anonymous, to love what you are doing and not to show off. It
is good to be kind without a name. That does not make you
famous; it does not cause your photograph to appear in the
newspapers. Politicians do not come to your door. You are just a
creative human being living anonymously, and in that there is
richness and great beauty.
Chapter 15
WE HAVE BEEN talking of so many things, of the many problems of
life, have we not? But I wonder if we really know what a problem
is. Problems become difficult to solve if they are allowed to
take root in the mind. The mind creates the problems, and then
becomes the soil in which they take root; and once a problem is
well established in the mind it is very difficult to uproot it.
What is essential is for the mind itself to see the problem and
not give it the soil to grow.
One of the basic problems confronting the world is the problem
of co-operation. What does the word `co-operation' mean? To
co-operate is to do things together, to build together, to feel
together, to have something in common so that we can freely work
together. But people generally don't feel inclined to work
together naturally, easily, happily; and so they are compelled
to work together through various inducements: threat, fear,
punishment, reward. This is the common practice throughout the
world. Under tyrannical governments you are brutally forced to
work together; if you don't `co-operate' you are liquidated or
sent to a concentration camp. In the so-called civilized nations
you are induced to work together through the concept of `my
country', or for an ideology which has been very carefully
worked out and widely propagated so that you accept it; or you
work together to carry out a plan which somebody has drawn up, a
blueprint for Utopia.
So, it is the plan, the idea, the authority which induces people
to work together. This is generally called co-operation, and in
it there is always the implication of reward or punishment,
which means that behind such `co-operation' there is fear. You
are always working for something - for the country, for the
king, for the party, for God or the Master, for peace, or to
bring about this or that reform. Your idea of co-operation is to
work together for a particular result. You have an ideal - to
build a perfect school, or what you will - towards which you are
working, therefore you say co-operation is necessary. All this
implies authority, does it not? There is always someone who is
supposed to know what is the right thing to do, and therefore
you say, "We must co-operate in carrying it out".
Now, I don't call that co-operation at all. That is not
co-operation, it is a form of greed, a form of fear, compulsion.
Behind it there is the threat that if you don't `co-operate' the
government won't recognize you or the Five Year plan will fail,
or you will be sent to a concentration camp, or your country
will lose the war, or you may not go to heaven. There is always
some form of inducement, and where there is inducement there
cannot be real co-operation.
Nor is it co-operation when you and I work together merely
because we have mutually agreed to do something. In any such
agreement what is important is the doing of that particular
thing, not working together. You and I may agree to build a
bridge, or construct a road, or plant some trees together, but
in that agreement there is always the fear of disagreement, the
fear that I may not do my share and let you do the whole thing.
So it is not co-operation when we work together through any form
of inducement, or by mere agreement, because behind all such
effort there is the implication of gaining or avoiding
something.
To me, co-operation is entirely different. Co-operation is the
fun of being and doing together - not necessarily doing
something in particular. Do you understand? Young children
normally have a feeling for being and doing together. Haven't
you noticed this? They will co-operate in anything. There is no
question of agreement or disagreement, reward or punishment;
they just want to help. They co-operate instinctively, for the
fun of being and doing together. But grown-up people destroy
this natural, spontaneous spirit of co-operation in children by
saying, "If you do this I will give you that; if you don't do
this I won't let you go to the cinema", which introduces the
corruptive element.
So, real co-operation comes, not through merely agreeing to
carry out some project together, but with the joy, the feeling
of togetherness, if one may use that word; because in that
feeling there is not the obstinacy of personal ideation,
personal opinion.
When you know such co-operation, you will also know when not to
co-operate, which is equally important. Do you understand? It is
necessary for all of us to awaken in ourselves this spirit of
co-operation, for then it will not be a mere plan or agreement
which causes us to work together, but an extraordinary feeling
of togetherness, the sense of joy in being and doing together
without any thought of reward or punishment. That is very
important. But it is equally important to know when not to
co-operate; because if we are not wise we may co-operate with
the unwise, with ambitious leaders who have grandiose schemes,
fantastic ideas, like Hitler and other tyrants down through the
ages. So we must know when not to co-operate; and we can know
this only when we know the joy of real co-operation.
This is a very important question to talk over, because when it
is suggested that we work together, your immediate response is
likely to be, "What for? What shall we do together?" In other
words, the thing to be done becomes more important than the
feeling of being and doing together; and when the thing to be
done - the plan, the concept, the ideological Utopia - assumes
primary importance, then there is no real co-operation. Then it
is only the idea that is binding us together; and if one idea
can bind us together, another idea can divide us. So, what
matters is to awaken in ourselves this spirit of co-operation,
this feeling of joy in being and doing together, without any
thought of reward or punishment. Most young people have it
spontaneously, freely, if it is not corrupted by their elders.
Questioner: How can we get rid of our mental worries if we can't
avoid the situations which cause them?
Krishnamurti: Then you have to face them, have you not? To get
rid of worry you generally try to escape from the problem; you
go to the temple or the cinema, you read a magazine, turn on the
radio, or seek some other form of distraction. But escape does
not solve the problem, because when you come back it is still
there; so why not face it from the very beginning?
Now, what is worry? You worry about whether you will pass your
examinations, and you are afraid that you won't; so you sweat
over it, spend sleepless nights. If you don't pass, your parents
will be disappointed; and also you would like to be able to say,
"I have done it, I have passed my examinations". You go on
worrying right up to examination day and until you know the
results. Can you escape, run away from the situation? Actually,
you can't, can you? So you have to face it. But why worry about
it? You have studied, you have done your best, and you will pass
or not pass. The more you worry about it the more frightened and
nervous you become, and the less you are capable of thinking;
and when the day arrives you cannot write a thing, you can only
look at the clock - which is what happened to me!
When the mind goes over and over a problem and is ceaselessly
concerned with it, that is what we call worry, is it not? Now,
how is one to get rid of worry? First of all, it is important
for the mind not to give soil for the problem to take root.
Do you know what the mind is? Great philosophers have spent many
years in examining the nature of the mind, and books have been
written about it; but, if one really gives one's whole attention
to it, I think it is fairly simple to find out what the mind is.
Have you ever observed your own mind? All that you have learnt
up to now, the memory of all your little experiences, what you
have been told by your parents, by your teachers, the things
that you have read in books or observed in the world around you
- all this is the mind. It is the mind that observes, that
discerns, that learns, that cultivates so-called virtues, that
communicates ideas, that has desires and fears. It is not only
what you see on the surface, but also the deep layers of the
unconscious in which are hidden the racial ambitions, motives,
urges, conflicts. All this is the mind, which is called
consciousness.
Now, the mind wants to be occupied with something, like a mother
worrying about her children, or a housewife about her kitchen,
or a politician about his popularity or his position in
parliament; and a mind that is occupied is incapable of solving
any problem. Do you see that? It is only the unoccupied mind
that can be fresh to understand a problem.
Observe your own mind and you will see how restless it is,
always occupied with something: with what somebody said
yesterday, with something you have just learned, with what you
are going to do tomorrow, and so on. It is never unoccupied -
which does not mean a stagnant mind, or a kind of mental vacuum.
As long as it is occupied, whether with the highest or the
lowest, the mind is small, petty; and a petty mind can never
resolve any problem, it can only be occupied with it. However
big a problem may be, in being occupied with it the mind makes
it petty. Only a mind that is unoccupied and therefore fresh can
tackle and resolve the problem.
But it is very difficult to have an unoccupied mind. Sometime
when you are sitting quietly by the river, or in your room,
observe yourself and you will see how constantly that little
space of which we are conscious, and which we call the mind, is
filled with the many thoughts that come precipitately into it.
As long as the mind is filled, occupied with something - whether
it be the mind of a housewife or of the greatest scientist - it
is small, petty, and whatever problem it tackles, it cannot
resolve that problem. Whereas, a mind that is unoccupied, that
has space, can tackle the problem and resolve it, because such a
mind is fresh, it approaches the problem anew, not with the
ancient heritage of its own memories and traditions.
Questioner: How can we know ourselves?
Krishnamurti: You know your face because you have often looked
at it reflected in the mirror. Now, there is a mirror in which
you can see yourself entirely - not your face, but all that you
think, all that you feel, your motives, your appetites, your
urges and fears. That mirror is the mirror of relationship: the
relationship between you and your parents, between you and your
teachers, between you and the river, the trees, the earth,
between you and your thoughts. Relationship is a mirror in which
you can see yourself, not as you would wish to be, but as you
are. I may wish, when looking in an ordinary mirror, that it
would show me to be beautiful, but that does not happen because
the mirror reflects my face exactly as it is and I cannot
deceive myself. Similarly, I can see myself exactly as I am in
the mirror of my relationship with others. I can observe how I
talk to people: most politely to those who I think can give me
something, and rudely or contemptuously to those who cannot. I
am attentive to those I am afraid of. I get up when important
people come in, but when the servant enters I pay no attention.
So, by observing myself in relationship, I have found out how
falsely I respect people, have I not? And I can also discover
myself as I am in my relationship with the trees and the birds,
with ideas and books.
You may have all the academic degrees in the world, but if you
don't know yourself you are a most stupid person. To know
oneself is the very purpose of all education. Without
self-knowledge, merely to gather facts or take notes so that you
can pass examinations is a stupid way of existence. You may be
able to quote the Bhagavad Gita, the Upanishads, the Koran and
the Bible, but unless you know yourself you are like a parrot
repeating words. Whereas, the moment you begin to know yourself,
however little, there is already set going an extraordinary
process of creativeness. It is a discovery to suddenly see
yourself as you actually are: greedy, quarrelsome, angry,
envious, stupid. To see the fact without trying to alter it,
just to see exactly what you are is an astonishing revelation.
From there you can go deeper and deeper, infinitely, because
there is no end to self-knowledge.
Through self-knowledge you begin to find out what is God, what
is truth, what is that state which is timeless. Your teacher may
pass on to you the knowledge which he received from his teacher,
and you may do well in your examinations, get a degree and all
the rest of it; but, without knowing yourself as you know your
own face in the mirror, all other knowledge has very little
meaning. Learned people who don't know themselves are really
unintelligent; they don't know what thinking is, what life is.
That is why it is important for the educator to be educated in
the true sense of the word, which means that he must know the
workings of his own mind and heart, see himself exactly as he is
in the mirror of relationship. Self-knowledge is the beginning
of wisdom. In self-knowledge is the whole universe; it embraces
all the struggles of humanity.
Questioner: Can we know ourselves without an inspirer?
Krishnamurti: To know yourself must you have an inspirer,
somebody to urge, stimulate, push you on? Listen to the question
very carefully and you will discover the true answer. You know,
half the problem is solved if you study it, is it not? But you
cannot study the problem fully if your mind is occupied too
eagerly with finding an answer.
The question is: in order to have self-knowledge must there not
be someone to inspire us?
Now, if you must have a guru, somebody to inspire you, to
encourage you, to tell you that you are doing well, it means
that you are relying on that person, and inevitably you are lost
when he goes away someday. The moment you depend on a person or
an idea for inspiration there is bound to be fear, therefore it
is not true inspiration at all. Whereas, if you watch a dead
body being carried away, or observe two people quarrelling, does
it not make you think? When you see somebody being very
ambitious, or notice how you all fall at the feet of your
governor when he comes in, does it not make you reflect? So
there is inspiration in everything, from the falling of a leaf
or the death of a bird to man's own behaviour. If you watch all
these things you are learning all the time; but if you look to
one person as your teacher, then you are lost and that person
becomes your nightmare. That is why it is very important not to
follow anybody, not to have one particular teacher, but to learn
from the river, the flowers, the trees, from the woman who
carries a burden, from the members of your family and from your
own thoughts. This is an education which nobody can give you but
yourself, and that is the beauty of it. It demands ceaseless
watchfulness, a constantly inquiring mind. You have to learn by
observing, by struggling, by being happy and tearful.
Questioner: With all the contradictions in oneself, how is it
possible to be and to do simultaneously?
Krishnamurti: Do you know what self-contradiction is? If I want
to do a particular thing in life and at the same time I want to
please my parents, who would like me to do something else, there
is in me a conflict, a contradiction. Now, how am I to resolve
it? If I cannot resolve this contradiction in myself, there can
obviously be no integration of being and doing. So the first
thing is to be free of self-contradiction.
Suppose you want to study painting because to paint is the joy
of your life, and your father says that you must become a lawyer
or a business man, otherwise he will cut you off and not pay for
your education, there is then a contradiction in you, is there
not? Now, how are you to remove that inner contradiction, to be
free of the struggle and the pain of it? As long as you are
caught in self-contradiction you cannot think; so you must
remove the contradiction, you must do one thing or the other.
Which will it be? Will you yield to your father? If you do, it
means that you have put away your joy, you have wed something
which you do not love; and will that resolve the contradiction?
Whereas, if you withstand your father, if you say, "Sorry, I
don't care if I have to beg, starve, I am going to paint", then
there is no contradiction; then being and doing are
simultaneous, because you know what you want to do and you do it
with your whole heart. But if you become a lawyer or a business
man while inside you are burning to be a painter, then for the
rest of your life you will be a dull, weary human being living
in torment, in frustration, in misery, being destroyed and
destroying others.
This is a very important problem for you to think out, because
as you grow up your parents are going to want you to do certain
things, and if you are not very clear in yourself about what you
really want to do you will be led like a sheep to the slaughter.
But if you find out what it is you love to do and give your
whole life to it, then there is no contradiction, and in that
state your being is your doing.
Questioner: For the sake of what we love to do should we forget
our duty to our parents?
Krishnamurti: What do you mean by that extraordinary word
`duty'? Duty to whom? To your parents, to the government, to
society? If your parents say it is your duty to become a lawyer
and properly support them, and you really want to be a sannyasi,
what will you do? In India to be a sannyasi is safe and
respectable, so your father may agree. When you put on the
ascetic's robe you have already become a great man, and your
father can trade on it. But if you want to work with your hands,
if you want to be a simple carpenter or a maker of beautiful
things of clay, then where does your duty lie? Can anyone tell
you? Must you not think it out very carefully for yourself
seeing all the implications involved, so that you can say, "This
I feel is the right thing for me to do and I shall stick to it
whether my parents agree or not"? Not merely to comply with what
your parents and society want you to do, but really to think out
the implications of duty; to see very clearly what is true and
stick to it right through life, even though it may mean
starvation, misery, death - to do that requires a great deal of
intelligence, perception, insight, and also a great deal of
love. You see, if you support your parents merely because you
think it is your duty, then your support is a thing of the
market place, without deep significance, because in it there is
no love.
Questioner: However much I may want to be an engineer, if my
father is against it and won't help me, how can I study
engineering?
Krishnamurti: If you persist in wanting to be an engineer even
though your father turns you out of the house, do you mean to
say that you won't find ways and means to study engineering? You
will beg, go to friends. Sir, life is very strange. The moment
you are very clear about what you want to do, things happen.
Life comes to your aid - a friend, a relation, a teacher, a
grandmother, somebody helps you. But if you are afraid to try
because your father may turn you out, then you are lost. Life
never comes to the aid of those who merely yield to some demand
out of fear. But if you say, "This is what I really want to do
and I am going to pursue it", then you will find that something
miraculous takes place. You may have to go hungry, struggle to
get through, but you will be a worthwhile human being, not a
mere copy, and that is the miracle of it.
You see, most of us are frightened to stand alone; and I know
this is especially difficult for you who are young, because
there is no economic freedom in this country as there is in
America or Europe. Here the country is overpopulated, so
everybody gives in. You say, "What will happen to me?" But if
you hold on, you will find that something or somebody helps you.
When you really stand against the popular demand then you are an
individual and life comes to your aid.
You know, in biology there is a phenomenon called the sport,
which is a sudden and spontaneous deviation from the type. If
you have a garden and have cultivated a particular species of
flower, one morning you may find that something totally new has
come out of that species. That new thing is called the sport.
Being new it stands out, and the gardener takes a special
interest in it. And life is like that. The moment you venture
out, something takes place in you and about you. Life comes to
your aid in various ways. You may not like the form in which it
comes to you - it may be misery, struggle, starvation - but when
you invite life, things begin to happen. But you see, we don't
want to invite life, we want to play a safe game; and those who
play a safe game die very safely. Is that not so?
Chapter 16
THE OTHER MORNING I saw a dead body being carried away to be
burnt. It was wrapped in bright magenta cloth and it swayed with
the rhythm of the four mortals who were carrying it. I wonder
what kind of impression a dead body makes on one. Don't you
wonder why there is deterioration? You buy a brand new motor,
and within a few years it is worn out. The body also wears out;
but don't you inquire a little further to find out why the mind
deteriorates? Sooner or later there is the death of the body,
but most of us have minds which are already dead. Deterioration
has already taken place; and why does the mind deteriorate? The
body deteriorates because we are constantly using it and the
physical organism wears out. Disease, accident, old age, bad
food, poor heredity - these are the factors which cause the
deterioration and death of the body. But why should the mind
deteriorate, become old, heavy, dull?
When you see a dead body, have you never wondered about this?
Though our bodies must die, why should the mind ever
deteriorate? Has this question never occurred to you? For the
mind does deteriorate - we see it not only in old people, but
also in the young. We see in the young how the mind is already
becoming dull, heavy, insensitive; and if we can find out why
the mind deteriorates, then perhaps we shall discover something
really indestructible. We may understand what is eternal life,
the life that is unending, that is not of time, the life that is
incorruptible, that does not decay like the body which is
carried to the ghats, burnt and the remains thrown into the
river.
Now, why does the mind deteriorate? Have you ever thought about
it? Being still very young - and if you have not already been
made dull by society, by your parents, by circumstances - you
have a fresh, eager, curious mind. You want to know why the
stars exist, why the birds die, why the leaves fall, how the jet
plane flies; you want to know so many things. But that vital
urge to inquire, to find out, is soon smothered, is it not? It
is smothered by fear, by the weight of tradition, by our own
incapacity to face this extraordinary thing called life. Haven't
you noticed how quickly your eagerness is destroyed by a sharp
word, by a disparaging gesture, by the fear of an examination or
the threat of a parent - which means that sensitivity is already
being pushed aside and the mind made dull?
Another cause of dullness is imitation. You are made to imitate
by tradition. The weight of the past drives you to conform, toe
the line, and through conformity the mind feels safe, secure; it
establishes itself in a well-oiled groove so that it can run
smoothly without disturbance, without a quiver of doubt. Watch
the grown-up people about you and you will see that their minds
do not want to be disturbed. They want peace, even though it is
the peace of death; but real peace is something entirely
different.
When the mind establishes itself in a groove, in a pattern,
haven't you noticed that it is always prompted by the desire to
be secure? That is why it follows an ideal, an example, a guru.
It wants to be safe, undisturbed, therefore it imitates. When
you read in your history books about great leaders, saints,
warriors, don't you find yourself wanting to copy them? Not that
there aren't great people in the world; but the instinct is to
imitate great people, to try to become like them, and that is
one of the factors of deterioration because the mind then sets
itself in a mould.
Furthermore, society does not want individuals who are alert,
keen, revolutionary, because such individuals will not fit into
the established social pattern and they may break it up. That is
why society seeks to hold your mind in its pattern, and why your
so-called education encourages you to imitate, to follow, to
conform.
Now, can the mind stop imitating? That is, can it cease to form
habits? And can the mind, which is already caught in habit, be
free of habit?
The mind is the result of habit, is it not? It is the result of
tradition, the result of time - time being repetition, a
continuity of the past. And can the mind, your mind, stop
thinking in terms of what has been - and of what will be, which
is really a projection of what has been? Can your mind be free
from habit and from creating habits? If you go into this problem
very deeply you will find that it can; and when the mind renews
itself without forming new patterns, habits, without again
falling into the groove of imitation, then it remains fresh,
young, innocent, and is therefore capable of infinite
understanding.
For such a mind there is no death because there is no longer a
process of accumulation. It is the process of accumulation that
creates habit, imitation, and for the mind that accumulates
there is deterioration, death. But a mind that is not
accumulating, not gathering, that is dying each day, each minute
- for such a mind there is no death. It is in a state of
infinite space.
So the mind must die to everything it has gathered - to all the
habits, the imitated virtues, to all the things it has relied
upon for its sense of security. Then it is no longer caught in
the net of its own thinking. In dying to the past from moment to
moment the mind is made fresh, therefore it can never
deteriorate or set in motion the wave of darkness.
Questioner: How can we put into practice what you are telling
us?
Krishnamurti: You hear something which you think is right and
you want to carry it out in your everyday life; so there is a
gap between what you think and what you do, is there not? You
think one thing, and you are doing something else. But you want
to put into practice what you think, so there is this gap
between action and thought; and then you ask how to bridge the
gap, how to link your thinking to your action.
Now, when you want to do something very much, you do it, don't
you? When you want to go and play cricket, or do some other
thing in which you are really interested, you find ways and
means of doing it; you never ask how to put it into practice.
You do it because you are eager, because your whole being, your
mind and heart are in it.
But in this other matter you have become very cunning, you think
one thing and do another. You say, '`That is an excellent idea
and intellectually I approve, but I don't know what to do about
it, so please tell me how to put it into practice" - which means
that you don't want to do it at all. What you really want is to
postpone action, because you like to be a little bit envious, or
whatever it is. You say, "Everybody else is envious, so why not
I?", and you just go on as before. But if you really don't want
to be envious and you see the truth of envy as you see the truth
of a cobra, then you cease to be envious and that is the end of
it; you never ask how to be free of envy.
So what is important is to see the truth of something, and not
ask how to carry it out - which really means that you don't see
the truth of it. When you meet a cobra on the road you don't
ask, "What am I to do?" You understand very well the danger of a
cobra and you stay away from it. But you have never really
examined all the implications of envy; nobody has ever talked to
you about it, gone into it very deeply with you. You have been
told that you must not be envious, but you have never looked
into the nature of envy; you have never observed how society and
all the organized religions are built on it, on the desire to
become something. But the moment you go into envy and really see
the truth of it, envy drops away.
To ask, "How am I to do it?" is a thoughtless question, because
when you are really interested in something which you don't know
how to do, you go at it and soon begin to find out. If you sit
back and say, "Please tell me a practical way to get rid of
greed," you will continue to be greedy. But if you inquire into
greed with an alert mind, without any prejudice, and if you put
your whole being into it, you will discover for yourself the
truth of greed; and it is the truth that frees you, not your
looking for a way to be free.
Questioner: Why are our desires never fully realized? Why are
there always hindrances that prevent us from doing completely as
we wish?
Krishnamurti: If your desire to do something is complete, if
your whole being is in it without seeking a result, without
wanting to fulfil - which means without fear - then there is no
hindrance. There is a hindrance, a contradiction only when your
desire is incomplete, broken up: you want to do something and at
the same time you are afraid to do it, or you half want to do
something else. Besides, can you ever fully realize your
desires? Do you understand? I will explain.
Society, which is the collective relationship between man and
man, does not want you to have a complete desire, because if you
did you would be a nuisance, a danger to society. You are
permitted to have respectable desires like ambition, envy - that
is perfectly all right. Being made up of human beings who are
envious, ambitious, who believe and imitate, society accepts
envy, ambition, belief, imitation, even though these are all
intimations of fear. As long as your desires fit into the
established pattern, you are a respectable citizen. But the
moment you have a complete desire, which is not of the pattern,
you become a danger; so society is always watching to prevent
you from having a complete desire, a desire which would be the
expression of your total being and therefore bring about a
revolutionary action.
The action of being is entirely different from the action of
becoming. The action of being is so revolutionary that society
rejects it and concerns itself exclusively with the action of
becoming, which is respectable because it fits into the pattern.
But any desire that expresses itself in the action of becoming,
which is a form of ambition, has no fulfilment. Sooner or later
it is thwarted, impeded, frustrated, and we revolt against that
frustration in mischievous ways.
This is a very important question to go into, because as you
grow older you will find that your desires are never really
fulfilled. In fulfilment there is always the shadow of
frustration, and in your heart there is not a song but a cry.
The desire to become a great man, a great saint, a great this or
that - has no end and therefore no fulfilment; its demand is
ever for the 'more', and such desire always breeds agony,
misery, wars. But when one is free of all desire to become there
is a state of being whose action is totally different. It is.
That which is has no time. it does not think in terms of
fulfilment. Its very being is its fulfilment.
Questioner: I see that I am dull, but others say I am
intelligent. Which should affect me: my seeing or their saying?
Krishnamurti: Now listen to the question very carefully, very
quietly, don't try to find an answer. If you say that I am an
intelligent man, and I know very well that I am dull, will what
you say affect me? It will if I am trying to be intelligent,
will it not? Then I shall be flattered, influenced by your
remark. But if I see that a dull person can never cease to be
dull by trying to be intelligent, then what happens?
Surely, if I am stupid and I try to be intelligent, I shall go
on being stupid because trying to be or to become something is
part of stupidity. A stupid person may acquire the trimmings of
cleverness, he may pass a few examinations, get a job, but he
does not thereby cease to be stupid. (Please follow this, it is
not a cynical statement.) But the moment a person is aware that
he is dull, stupid, and instead of trying to be intelligent he
begins to examine and understand his stupidity - in that moment
there is the awakening of intelligence.
Take greed. Do you know what greed is? It is eating more food
than you need, wanting to outshine others at games, wanting to
have more property, a bigger car than someone else. Then you say
that you must not be greedy, so you practise non-greed which is
really silly, because greed can never cease by trying to become
non-greed. But if you begin to understand all the implications
of greed, if you give your mind and heart to finding the truth
of it, then you are free from greed as well as from its
opposite. Then you are a really intelligent human being, because
you are tackling what is and not imitating what should be.
So, if you are dull, don't try to be intelligent or clever, but
understand what it is that is making you dull. Imitation, fear,
copying somebody, following an example or an ideal - all this
makes the mind dull. When you stop following, when you have no
fear, when you are capable of thinking clearly for yourself -
are you not then the brightest of human beings? But if you are
dull and try to be clever you will join the ranks of those who
are pretty dull in their cleverness.
Questioner: Why are we naughty?
Krishnamurti: If you ask yourself this question when you are
naughty, then it has significance, it has meaning. But when you
are angry, for example, you never ask why you are angry, do you?
It is only afterwards that you ask this question. Having been
angry, you say, "How stupid, I should not have been angry".
Whereas, if you are aware, thoughtful at the moment of anger
without condemning it, if you are `all there' when the turmoil
comes up in your mind, then you will see how quickly it fades
away.
Children are naughty at a certain age, and they should be,
because they are full of beans, life, ginger, and it has to
break out in some form or other. But you see, this is really a
complex question, because naughtiness may be due to wrong food,
a lack of sleep, or a feeling of insecurity, and so on. If all
the factors involved are not properly understood, then
naughtiness on the part of children becomes a revolt within
society, in which there is no release for them.
Do you know what `delinquent' children are? They are children
who do all kinds of terrible things; they are in revolt within
the prison of society because they have never been helped to
understand the whole problem of existence. They are so vital,
and some of them are extraordinarily intelligent, and their
revolt is a way of saying, "Help us to understand, to break
through this compulsion, this terrible conformity". That is why
this question is very important for the educator, who needs
educating more than the children.
Questioner: I am used to drinking tea. One teacher says it is a
bad habit, and another says it is all right.
Krishnamurti: What do you think? Put aside for the moment what
other people say, it may be their prejudice, and listen to the
question. What do you think of a young boy being `used' to
something already - drinking tea, smoking, competitive eating,
or whatever it is? It may be all right to have fallen into a
habit of doing something when you are seventy or eighty, with
one foot in the grave; but you are just beginning your life, and
already to be used to something is a terrible thing, is it not?
That is the important question, not whether you should drink
tea.
You see, when you have become used to something, your mind is
already on its way to the graveyard. If you think as a Hindu, a
communist, a Catholic, a Protestant, then your mind is already
going down, deteriorating. But if your mind is alert, inquiring
to find out why you are caught in a certain habit, why you think
in a particular way, then the secondary question of whether you
should smoke or drink tea can be dealt with.