Bhakti Yoga
Para-Bhakti or Supreme Devotion
CHAPTER I
THE PREPARATORY RENUNCIATION
We have now finished the consideration of what may be called the
preparatory Bhakti, and are entering on the study of the
Parâ-Bhakti or supreme devotion. We have to speak of a preparation
to the practice of this Para-Bhakti. All such preparations are
intended only for the purification of the soul. The repetition of
names, the rituals, the forms, and the symbols, all these various
things are for the purification of the soul. The greatest purifier
among all such things, a purifier without which no one can enter
the regions of this higher devotion (Para-Bhakti), is
renunciation. This frightens many; yet, without it, there cannot
be any spiritual growth. In all our Yogas this renunciation is
necessary. This is the stepping-stone and the real centre and the
real heart of all spiritual culture - renunciation. This is
religion - renunciation.
When the human soul draws back from the things of the world and
tries to go into deeper things; when man, the spirit which has
here somehow become concretised and materialised, understands that
he is thereby going to be destroyed and to be reduced almost into
mere matter, and turns his face away from matter - then begins
renunciation, then begins real spiritual growth. The Karma-Yogi's
renunciation is in the shape of giving up all the fruits of his
action; he is not attached to the results of his labour; he does
not care for any reward here or hereafter. The Râja-Yogi knows
that the whole of nature is intended for the soul to acquire
experience, and that the result of all the experiences of the soul
is for it to become aware of its eternal separateness from nature.
The human soul has to understand and realise that it has been
spirit, and not matter, through eternity, and that this
conjunction of it with matter is and can be only for a time. The
Raja-Yogi learns the lesson of renunciation through his own
experience of nature. The Jnâna-Yogi has the harshest of all
renunciations to go through, as he has to realise from the very
first that the whole of this solid-looking nature is all an
illusion. He has to understand that all that is any kind of
manifestation of power in nature belongs to the soul, and not to
nature. He has to know from the very start that all knowledge and
all experience are in the soul and not in nature; so he has at
once and by the sheer force of rational conviction to tear himself
away from all bondage to nature. He lets nature and all that
belongs to her go, he lets them vanish and tries to stand alone!
Of all renunciations, the most natural, so to say, is that of the
Bhakti-Yogi. Here there is no violence, nothing to give up,
nothing to tear off, as it were, from ourselves, nothing from
which we have violently to separate ourselves. The Bhakta's
renunciation is easy, smooth flowing, and as natural as the things
around us. We see the manifestation of this sort of renunciation,
although more or less in the form of caricatures, every day around
us. A man begins to love a woman; after a while he loves another,
and the first woman he lets go. She drops out of his mind
smoothly, gently, without his feeling the want of her at all. A
woman loves a man; she then begins to love another man, and the
first one drops off from her mind quite naturally. A man loves his
own city, then he begins to love his country, and the intense love
for his little city drops off smoothly, naturally. Again, a man
learns to love the whole world; his love for his country, his
intense, fanatical patriotism drops off without hurting him,
without any manifestation of violence. An uncultured man loves the
pleasures of the senses intensely; as he becomes cultured, he
begins to love intellectual pleasures, and his sense-enjoyments
become less and less. No man can enjoy a meal with the same gusto
or pleasure as a dog or a wolf, but those pleasures which a man
gets from intellectual experiences and achievements, the dog can
never enjoy. At first, pleasure is in association with the lowest
senses; but as soon as an animal reaches a higher plane of
existence, the lower kind of pleasures becomes less intense. In
human society, the nearer the man is to the animal, the stronger
is his pleasure in the senses; and the higher and the more
cultured the man is, the greater is his pleasure in intellectual
and such other finer pursuits. So when a man gets even higher than
the plane of the intellect, higher than that of mere thought, when
he gets to the plane of spirituality and of divine inspiration, he
finds there a state of bliss, compared with which all the
pleasures of the senses, or even of the intellect, are as nothing.
When the moon shines brightly, all the stars become dim; and when
the sun shines, the moon herself becomes dim. The renunciation
necessary for the attainment of Bhakti is not obtained by killing
anything, but just comes in as naturally as in the presence of an
increasingly stronger light, the less intense ones become dimmer
and dimmer until they vanish away completely. So this love of the
pleasures of the senses and of the intellect is all made dim and
thrown aside and cast into the shade by the love of God Himself.
That love of God grows and assumes a form which is called
Para-Bhakti or supreme devotion. Forms vanish, rituals fly away,
books are superseded; images, temples, churches, religions and
sects, countries and nationalities - all these little limitations
and bondages fall off by their own nature from him who knows this
love of God. Nothing remains to bind him or fetter his freedom. A
ship, all of a sudden, comes near a magnetic rock, and its iron
bolts and bars are all attracted and drawn out, and the planks get
loosened and freely float on the water. Divine grace thus loosens
the binding bolts and bars of the soul, and it becomes free. So in
this renunciation auxiliary to devotion, there is no harshness, no
dryness no struggle, nor repression nor suppression. The Bhakta
has not to suppress any single one of his emotions, he only
strives to intensify them and direct them to God.
CHAPTER II
THE BHAKTA'S RENUNCIATION RESULTS FROM LOVE
We see love everywhere in nature. Whatever in society is good and
great and sublime is the working out of that love; whatever in
society is very bad, nay diabolical, is also the ill-directed
working out of the same emotion of love. It is this same emotion
that gives us the pure and holy conjugal love between husband and
wife as well as the sort of love which goes to satisfy the lowest
forms of animal passion. The emotion is the same, but its
manifestation is different in different cases. It is the same
feeling of love, well or ill directed, that impels one man to do
good and to give all he has to the poor, while it makes another
man cut the throats of his brethren and take away all their
possessions. The former loves others as much as the latter loves
himself. The direction of the love is bad in the case of the
latter, but it is right and proper in the other case. The same
fire that cooks a meal for us may burn a child, and it is no fault
of the fire if it does so; the difference lies in the way in which
it is used. Therefore love, the intense longing for association,
the strong desire on the part of two to become one - and it may
be, after all, of all to become merged in one - is being
manifested everywhere in higher or lower forms as the case may be.
Bhakti-Yoga is the science of higher love. It shows us how to
direct it; it shows us how to control it, how to manage it, how to
use it, how to give it a new aim, as it were, and from it obtain
the highest and most glorious results, that is, how to make it
lead us to spiritual blessedness. Bhakti-Yoga does not say, "Give
up"; it only says, "Love; love the Highest!" - and everything low
naturally falls off from him, the object of whose love is the
Highest.
"I cannot tell anything about Thee except that Thou art my love.
Thou art beautiful, Oh, Thou art beautiful! Thou art beauty
itself." What is after all really required of us in this Yoga is
that our thirst after the beautiful should be directed to God.
What is the beauty in the human face, in the sky, in the stars,
and in the moon? It is only the partial apprehension of the real
all-embracing Divine Beauty. "He shining, everything shines. It is
through His light that all things shine." Take this high position
of Bhakti which makes you forget at once all your little
personalities. Take yourself away from all the world's little
selfish clingings. Do not look upon humanity as the centre of all
your human and higher interests. Stand as a witness, as a student,
and observe the phenomena of nature. Have the feeling of personal
non-attachment with regard to man, and see how this mighty feeling
of love is working itself out in the world. Sometimes a little
friction is produced, but that is only in the course of the
struggle to attain the higher real love. Sometimes there is a
little fight or a little fall; but it is all only by the way.
Stand aside and freely let these frictions come. You feel the
frictions only when you are in the current of the world, but when
you are outside of it simply as a witness and as a student, you
will be able to see that there are millions and millions of
channels in which God is manifesting Himself as Love.
"Wherever there is any bliss, even though in the most sensual of
things, there is a spark of that Eternal Bliss which is the Lord
Himself." Even in the lowest kinds of attraction there is the germ
of divine love. One of the names of the Lord in Sanskrit is Hari,
and this means that He attracts all things to Himself. His is in
fact the only attraction worthy of human hearts. Who can attract a
soul really? Only He! Do you think dead matter can truly attract
the soul? It never did, and never will. When you see a man going
after a beautiful face, do you think that it is the handful of
arranged material molecules which really attracts the man? Not at
all. Behind those material particles there must be and is the play
of divine influence and divine love. The ignorant man does not
know it, but yet, consciously or unconsciously, he is attracted by
it and it alone. So even the lowest forms of attraction derive
their power from God Himself. "None, O beloved, ever loved the
husband for the husband's sake; it is the Âtman, the Lord who is
within, for whose sake the husband is loved." Loving wives may
know this or they may not; it is true all the same. "None, O
beloved, ever loved the wife for the wife's sake, but it is the
Self in the wife that is loved." Similarly, no one loves a child
or anything else in the world except on account of Him who is
within. The Lord is the great magnet, and we are all like iron
filings; we are being constantly attracted by Him, and all of us
are struggling to reach Him. All this struggling of ours in this
world is surely not intended for selfish ends. Fools do not know
what they are doing: the work of their life is, after all, to
approach the great magnet. All the tremendous struggling and
fighting in life is intended to make us go to Him ultimately and
be one with Him.
The Bhakti-Yogi, however, knows the meaning of life's struggles;
he understands it. He has passed through a long series of these
struggles and knows what they mean and earnestly desires to be
free from the friction thereof; he wants to avoid the clash and go
direct to the centre of all attraction, the great Hari This is the
renunciation of the Bhakta. This mighty attraction in the
direction of God makes all other attractions vanish for him. This
mighty infinite love of God which enters his heart leaves no place
for any other love to live there. How can it be otherwise" Bhakti
fills his heart with the divine waters of the ocean of love, which
is God Himself; there is no place there for little loves. That is
to say, the Bhakta's renunciation is that Vairâgya or
non-attachment for all things that are not God which results from
Anurâga or great attachment to God.
This is the ideal preparation for the attainment of the supreme
Bhakti. When this renunciation comes, the gate opens for the soul
to pass through and reach the lofty regions of supreme devotion or
Para-Bhakti. Then it is that we begin to understand what
Para-Bhakti is; and the man who has entered into the inner shrine
of the Para-Bhakti alone has the right to say that all forms and
symbols are useless to him as aids to religious realisation. He
alone has attained that supreme state of love commonly called the
brotherhood of man; the rest only talk. He sees no distinctions;
the mighty ocean of love has entered into him, and he sees not man
in man, but beholds his Beloved everywhere. Through every face
shines to him his Hari. The light in the sun or the moon is all
His manifestation. Wherever there is beauty or sublimity, to him
it is all His. Such Bhaktas are still living; the world is never
without them. Such, though bitten by a serpent, only say that a
messenger came to them from their Beloved. Such men alone have the
right to talk of universal brotherhood. They feel no resentment;
their minds never react in the form of hatred or jealousy. The
external, the sensuous, has vanished from them forever. How can
they be angry, when, through their love, they are always able to
see the Reality behind the scenes?
CHAPTER III
THE NATURALNESS OF BHAKTI-YOGA AND ITS CENTRAL SECRET
"Those who with constant attention always worship You, and those
who worship the Undifferentiated, the Absolute, of these who are
the greatest Yogis?" - Arjuna asked of Shri Krishna. The answer
was: "Those who concentrating their minds on Me worship Me with
eternal constancy and are endowed with the highest faith, they are
My best worshippers, they are the greatest Yogis. Those that
worship the Absolute, the Indescribable, the Undifferentiated, the
Omnipresent, the Unthinkable, the All-comprehending, the
Immovable, and the Eternal, by controlling the play of their
organs and having the conviction of sameness in regard to all
things, they also, being engaged in doing good to all beings, come
to Me alone. But to those whose minds have been devoted to the
unmanifested Absolute, the difficulty of the struggle along the
way is much greater, for it is indeed with great difficulty that
the path of the unmanifested Absolute is trodden by any embodied
being. Those who, having offered up all their work unto Me, with
entire reliance on Me, meditate on Me and worship Me without any
attachment to anything else - them, I soon lift up from the ocean
of ever-recurring births and deaths, as their mind is wholly
attached to Me" (Gita, XII).
Jnâna-Yoga and Bhakti-Yoga are both referred to here. Both may be
said to have been defined in the above passage. Jnana-Yoga is
grand; it is high philosophy; and almost every human being thinks,
curiously enough, that he can surely do everything required of him
by philosophy; but it is really very difficult to live truly the
life of philosophy. We are often apt to run into great dangers in
trying to guide our life by philosophy. This world may be said to
be divided between persons of demoniacal nature who think the
care-taking of the body to be the be-all and the end-all of
existence, and persons of godly nature who realise that the body
is simply a means to an end, an instrument intended for the
culture of the soul. The devil can and indeed does cite the
scriptures for his own purpose; and thus the way of knowledge
appears to offer justification to what the bad man does, as much
as it offers inducements to what the good man does. This is the
great danger in Jnana-Yoga. But Bhakti-Yoga is natural, sweet, and
gentle; the Bhakta does not take such high flights as the
Jnana-Yogi, and, therefore, he is not apt to have such big falls.
Until the bandages of the soul pass away, it cannot of course be
free, whatever may be the nature of the path that the religious
man takes.
Here is a passage showing how, in the case of one of the blessed
Gopis, the soul-binding chains of both merit and demerit were
broken. "The intense pleasure in meditating on God took away the
binding effects of her good deeds. Then her intense misery of soul
in not attaining unto Him washed off all her sinful propensities;
and then she became free." -
तच्चिन्ताविपुलाह्लादक्षीणपुण्यचया तथा। तदप्राप्ति
महद्दुःखविलीनाशेषपातका॥
निरुच्छ्वासतया मुक्तिं गतान्या गोपकन्यका॥
(Vishnu-Purâna). In Bhakti-Yoga the central secret is, therefore,
to know that the various passions and feelings and emotions in the
human heart are not wrong in themselves; only they have to be
carefully controlled and given a higher and higher direction,
until they attain the very highest condition of excellence. The
highest direction is that which takes us to God; every other
direction is lower. We find that pleasures and pains are very
common and oft-recurring feelings in our lives. When a man feels
pain because he has not wealth or some such worldly thing, he is
giving a wrong direction to the feeling. Still pain has its uses.
Let a man feel pain that he has not reached the Highest, that he
has not reached God, and that pain will be to his salvation. When
you become glad that you have a handful of coins, it is a wrong
direction given to the faculty of joy; it should be given a higher
direction, it must be made to serve the Highest Ideal. Pleasure in
that kind of ideal must surely be our highest joy. This same thing
is true of all our other feelings. The Bhakta says that not one of
them is wrong, he gets hold of them all and points them
unfailingly towards God.
CHAPTER IV
THE FORMS OF LOVE - MANIFESTATION
Here are some of the forms in which love manifests itself. First
there is reverence. Why do people show reverence to temples and
holy places? Because He is worshipped there, and His presence is
associated with all such places. Why do people in every country
pay reverence to teachers of religion? It is natural for the human
heart to do so, because all such teachers preach the Lord. At
bottom, reverence is a growth out of love; we can none of us
revere him whom we do not love. Then comes Priti - pleasure in
God. What an immense pleasure men take in the objects of the
senses. They go anywhere, run through any danger, to get the thing
which they love, the thing which their senses like. What is wanted
of the Bhakta is this very kind of intense love which has,
however, to be directed to God. Then there is the sweetest of
pains, Viraha, the intense misery due to the absence of the
beloved. When a man feels intense misery because he has not
attained to God, has not known that which is the only thing worthy
to be known, and becomes in consequence very dissatisfied and
almost mad - then there is Viraha; and this state of the mind
makes him feel disturbed in the presence of anything other than
the beloved (Ekarativichikitsâ). In earthly love we see how often
this Viraha comes. Again, when men are really and intensely in
love with women or women with men, they feel a kind of natural
annoyance in the presence of all those whom they do not love.
Exactly the same state of impatience in regard to things that are
not loved comes to the mind when Para-Bhakti holds sway over it;
even to talk about things other than God becomes distasteful then.
"Think of Him, think of Him alone, and give up all other vain
words" अन्या वाचो विमुंचथ। - Those who talk of Him alone, the
Bhakta finds to be friendly to him; while those who talk of
anything else appear to him to be unfriendly. A still higher stage
of love is reached when life itself is maintained for the sake of
the one Ideal of Love, when life itself is considered beautiful
and worth living only on account of that Love
(तदर्थप्राणसंस्थानं). Without it, such a life would not remain
even for a moment. Life is sweet, because it thinks of the
Beloved. Tadiyatâ (His-ness) comes when a man becomes perfect
according to Bhakti - when he has become blessed, when he has
attained God, when he has touched the feet of God, as it were.
Then his whole nature is purified and completely changed. All his
purpose in life then becomes fulfilled. Yet many such Bhaktas live
on just to worship Him. That is the bliss, the only pleasure in
life which they will not give up. "O king, such is the blessed
quality of Hari that even those who have become satisfied with
everything, all the knots of whose hearts have been cut asunder,
even they love the Lord for love's sake" - the Lord "Whom all the
gods worship - all the lovers of liberation, and all the knowers
of the Brahman" यं सर्वे देवा नमन्ति मुमुक्षवो ब्रह्मवादिनश्चेति -
(Nri. Tap. Up.). Such is the power of love. When a man has
forgotten himself altogether, and does not feel that anything
belongs to him, then he acquires the state of Tadiyata; everything
is sacred to him, because it belongs to the Beloved. Even in
regard to earthly love, the lover thinks that everything belonging
to his beloved is sacred and so dear to him. He loves even a piece
of cloth belonging to the darling of his heart In the same way,
when a person loves the Lord, the whole universe becomes dear to
him, because it is all His.
CHAPTER V
UNIVERSAL LOVE AND HOW IT LEADS TO SELF-SURRENDER
How can we love the Vyashti, the particular, without first loving
the Samashti, the universal? God is the Samashti, the generalised
and the abstract universal whole; and the universe that we see is
the Vyashti, the particularised thing. To love the whole universe
is possible only by way of loving the Samashti - the universal -
which is, as it were, the one unity in which are to be found
millions and millions of smaller unities. The philosophers of
India do not stop at the particulars; they cast a hurried glance
at the particulars and immediately start to find the generalised
forms which will include all the particulars. The search after the
universal is the one search of Indian philosophy and religion. The
Jnâni aims at the wholeness of things, at that one absolute and;
generalised Being, knowing which he knows everything. The Bhakta
wishes to realise that one generalised abstract Person, in loving
whom he loves the whole universe. The Yogi wishes to have
possession of that one generalised form of power, by controlling
which he controls this whole universe. The Indian mind, throughout
its history, has been directed to this kind of singular search
after the universal in everything - in science, in psychology, in
love, in philosophy. So the conclusion to which the Bhakta comes
is that, if you go on merely loving one, person after another, you
may go on loving them so for an infinite length of time, without
being in the least able to love the world as a whole. When, at
last, the central idea is, however, arrived at that the sum total
of all love is God, that the sum total of the aspirations of all
the souls in the universe, whether they be free, or bound, or
struggling towards liberation, is God, then alone it becomes
possible for anyone to put forth universal love. God is the
Samashti, and this visible universe is God differentiated and made
manifest. If we love this sum total, we love everything. Loving
the world doing it good will all come easily then; we have to
obtain this power only by loving God first; otherwise it is no
joke to do good to the world. "Everything is His and He is my
Lover; I love Him," says the Bhakta. In this way everything
becomes sacred to the Bhakta, because all things are His. All are
His children, His body, His manifestation. How then may we hurt
anyone? How then may we not love any one? With the love of God
will come, as a sure effect, the love of everyone in the universe.
The nearer we approach God, the more do we begin to see that all
things are in Him. When the soul succeeds in appropriating the
bliss of this supreme love, it also begins to see Him in
everything. Our heart will thus become an eternal fountain of
love. And when we reach even higher states of this love, all the
little differences between the things of the world are entirely
lost; man is seen no more as man, but only as God; the animal is
seen no more as animal, but as God; even the tiger is no more a
tiger, but a manifestation of God. Thus in this intense state of
Bhakti, worship is offered to everyone, to every life, and to
every being.
एवं सर्वेषु भूतेषु भक्तिरव्यभिचारिणी। कर्तव्या पण्डितैर्ज्ञात्वा
सर्वभूतमयं हरिम्॥
- "Knowing that Hari, the Lord, is in every being, the wise have
thus to manifest unswerving love towards all beings."
As a result of this kind of intense all-absorbing love, comes the
feeling of perfect self-surrender, the conviction that nothing
that happens is against us, Aprâtikulya. Then the loving soul is
able to say, if pain comes, "Welcome pain." If misery comes, it
will say, "Welcome misery, you are also from the Beloved." If a
serpent comes, it will say, "Welcome serpent." If death comes,
such a Bhakta will welcome it with a smile. "Blessed am I that
they all come to me; they are all welcome." The Bhakta in this
state of perfect resignation, arising out of intense love to God
and to all that are His, ceases to distinguish between pleasure
and pain in so far as they affect him. He does not know what it is
to complain of pain or misery; and this kind of uncomplaining
resignation to the will of God, who is all love, is indeed a
worthier acquisition than all the glory of grand and heroic
performances.
To the vast majority of mankind, the body is everything; the body
is all the universe to them; bodily enjoyment is their all in all.
This demon of the worship of the body and of the things of the
body has entered into us all. We may indulge in tall talk and take
very high flights, but we are like vultures all the same; our mind
is directed to the piece of carrion down below. Why should our
body be saved, say, from the tiger? Why may we not give it over to
the tiger? The tiger will thereby be pleased, and that is not
altogether so very far from self-sacrifice and worship. Can you
reach the realization of such an idea in which all sense of self
is completely lost? It is a very dizzy height on the pinnacle of
the religion of love, and few in this world have ever climbed up
to it; but until a man reaches that highest point of ever-ready
and ever-willing self-sacrifice, he cannot become a perfect
Bhakta. We may all manage to maintain our bodies more or less
satisfactorily and for longer or shorter intervals of time.
Nevertheless, our bodies have to go; there is no permanence about
them. Blessed are they whose bodies get destroyed in the service
of others. "Wealth, and even life itself, the sage always holds
ready for the service of others. In this world, there being one
thing certain, viz death, it is far better that this body dies in
a good cause than in a bad one." We may drag our life on for fifty
years or a hundred years; but after that, what is it that happens?
Everything that is the result of combination must get dissolved
and die. There must and will come a time for it to be decomposed.
Jesus and Buddha and Mohammed are all dead; all the great Prophets
and Teachers of the world are dead.
"In this evanescent world, where everything is falling to pieces,
we have to make the highest use of what time we have," says the
Bhakta; and really the highest use of life is to hold it at the
service of all beings. It is the horrible body-idea that breeds
all the selfishness in the world, just this one delusion that we
are wholly the body we own, and that we must by all possible means
try our very best to preserve and to please it. If you know that
you are positively other than your body, you have then none to
fight with or struggle against; you are dead to all ideas of
selfishness. So the Bhakta declares that we have to hold ourselves
as if we are altogether dead to all the things of the world; and
that is indeed self-surrender. Let things come as they may. This
is the meaning of "Thy will be done" - not going about fighting
and struggling and thinking all the while that God wills all our
own weaknesses and worldly ambitions. It may be that good comes
even out of our selfish struggles; that is, however, God's
look-out. The perfected Bhakta's idea must be never to will and
work for himself. "Lord, they build high temples in Your name;
they make large gifts in Your name; I am poor; I have nothing; so
I take this body of mine and place it at Your feet. Do not give me
up, O Lord." Such is the prayer proceeding out of the depths of
the Bhakta's heart. To him who has experienced it, this eternal
sacrifice of the self unto the Beloved Lord is higher by far than
all wealth and power, than even all soaring thoughts of renown and
enjoyment. The peace of the Bhakta's calm resignation is a peace
that passeth all understanding and is of incomparable value. His
Apratikulya is a state of the mind in which it has no interests
and naturally knows nothing that is opposed to it. In this state
of sublime resignation everything in the shape of attachment goes
away completely, except that one all-absorbing love to Him in whom
all things live and move and have their being. This attachment of
love to God is indeed one that does not bind the soul but
effectively breaks all its bondages.
CHAPTER VI
THE HIGHER KNOWLEDGE AND THE HIGHER LOVE ARE ONE TO THE
TRUE LOVER
The Upanishads distinguish between a higher knowledge and a lower
knowledge; and to the Bhakta there is really no difference between
this higher knowledge and his higher love (Parâ-Bhakti). The
Mundaka Upanishad says:
द्वे विद्ये वेदितव्ये इति ह स्म यद्ब्रह्मविदो वदन्ति। परा चैवापरा
च॥ तत्रापरा ॠग्वेदो यजुर्वदः सामवेदोऽथर्ववेदः शिक्षा कल्पो
व्याकरणं निरुक्तं छन्दो ज्योतिषमिति। अथ परा यया तदक्षरमधिगम्यते॥
- "The knowers of the Brahman declare that there are two kinds of
knowledge worthy to be known, namely, the Higher (Parâ) and the
lower (Aparâ). Of these the lower (knowledge) consists of the
Rig-Veda, the Yajur-Veda, the Sâma-Veda, the Atharva-Veda, the
Shikshâ (or the science dealing with pronunciation and accent),
the Kalpa (or the sacrificial liturgy), grammar, the Nirukta (or
the science dealing with etymology and the meaning of words),
prosody, and astronomy; and the higher (knowledge) is that by
which that Unchangeable is known."
The higher knowledge is thus clearly shown to be the knowledge of
the Brahman; and the Devi-Bhâgavata gives us the following
definition of the higher love (Para-Bhakti): "As oil poured from
one vessel to another falls in an unbroken line, so, when the mind
in an unbroken stream thinks of the Lord, we have what is called
Para-Bhakti or supreme love." This kind of undisturbed and
ever-steady direction of the mind and the heart to the Lord with
an inseparable attachment is indeed the highest manifestation of
man's love to God. All other forms of Bhakti are only preparatory
to the attainment of this highest form thereof, viz the
Para-Bhakti which is also known as the love that comes after
attachment (Râgânugâ). When this supreme love once comes into the
heart of man, his mind will continuously think of God and remember
nothing else. He will give no room in himself to thoughts other
than those of God, and his soul will be unconquerably pure and
will alone break all the bonds of mind and matter and become
serenely free. He alone can worship the Lord in his own heart; to
him forms, symbols, books, and doctrines are all unnecessary and
are incapable of proving serviceable in any way. It is not easy to
love the Lord thus. Ordinarily human love is seen to flourish only
in places where it is returned; where love is not returned for
love, cold indifference is the natural result. There are, however,
rare instances in which we may notice love exhibiting itself even
where there is no return of love. We may compare this kind of
love, far purposes of illustration, to the love of the moth for
the fire; the insect loves the fire, falls into it, and dies. It
is indeed in the nature of this insect to love so. To love because
it is the nature of love to love is undeniably the highest and the
most unselfish manifestation of love that may be seen in the
world. Such love, working itself out on the plane of spirituality,
necessarily leads to the attainment of Para-Bhakti.
CHAPTER VII
THE TRIANGLE OF LOVE
We may represent love as a triangle, each of the angles of which
corresponds to one of its inseparable characteristics. There can
be no triangle without all its three angles; and there can be no
true love without its three following characteristics. The first
angle of our triangle of love is that love knows no bargaining.
Wherever there is any seeking for something in return, there can,
be no real love; it becomes a mere matter of shop-keeping. As long
as there is in us any idea of deriving this or that favour from
God in return for our respect and allegiance to Him, so long there
can be no true love growing in our hearts. Those who worship God
because they wish Him to bestow favours on them are sure not to
worship Him if those favours are not forthcoming. The Bhakta loves
the Lord because He is lovable, there is no other motive
originating or directing this divine emotion of the true devotee.
We have heard it said that a great king once went into a forest
and there met a sage. He talked with the sage a little and was
very much pleased with his purity and wisdom. The king then wanted
the sage to oblige him by receiving a present from him. The sage
refused to do so, saying, "The fruits of the forest are enough
food for me; the pure streams of water flowing down from the
mountains give enough drink for me; the barks of the trees supply
me with enough covering; and the caves of the mountains form my
home. Why should I take any present from you or from anybody?" The
king said, "Just to benefit me, sir, please take something from my
hands and please come with me to the city and to my palace." After
much persuasion, the sage at last consented to do as the king
desired and went with him to his palace. Before offering the gift
to the sage, the king repeated his prayers, saying, "Lord, give me
more children; Lord, give me more wealth; Lord, give me more
territory; Lord, keep my body in better health", and so on. Before
the king finished saying his prayer, the sage had got up and
walked away from the room quietly. At this the king became
perplexed and began to follow him, crying aloud, "Sir, you are
going away, you have not received my gifts." The sage turned round
to him and said, "I do not beg of beggars. You are yourself
nothing but a beggar, and how can you give me anything? I am no
fool to think of taking anything from a beggar like you. Go away,
do not follow me."
There is well brought out the distinction between mere beggars and
the real lovers of God. Begging is not the language of love. To
worship God even for the sake of salvation or any other rewards
equally degenerate. Love knows no reward. Love is always for
love's sake. The Bhakta loves because he cannot help loving. When
you see a beautiful scenery and fall in love with it, you do not
demand anything in the way of favour from the scenery, nor does
the scenery demand anything from you. Yet the vision thereof
brings you to a blissful state of the mind; it tones down all the
friction in your soul, it makes you calm, almost raises you, for
the time being, beyond your mortal nature and places you in a
condition of quite divine ecstasy. This nature of real love is the
first angle of our triangle. Ask not anything in return for your
love; let your position be always that of the giver; give your
love unto God, but do not ask anything in return even from Him.
The second angle of the triangle of love is that love knows no
fear. Those that love God through fear are the lowest of human
beings, quite undeveloped as men. They worship God from fear of
punishment. He is a great Being to them, with a whip in one hand
and the sceptre in the other; if they do not obey Him, they are
afraid they will be whipped. It is a degradation to worship God
through fear of punishment; such worship is, if worship at all,
the crudest form of the worship of love. So long as there is any
fear in the heart, how can there be love also? Love conquers
naturally all fear. Think of a young mother in the street and a
dog barking at her; she is frightened and flies into nearest
house. But suppose the next day she is in the street with her
child, and a lion springs upon the child. Where will be her
position now? Of course, in the very mouth of the lion, protecting
her child. Love conquers all fear. Fear comes from the selfish
idea of cutting one's self off from the universe. The smaller and
the more selfish I make myself, the more is my fear. If a man
thinks he is a little nothing, fear will surely come upon him. And
the less you think of yourself as an insignificant person, the
less fear there will be for you. So long as there is the least
spark of fear in you there can be no love there. Love and fear are
incompatible; God is never to be feared by those who love Him. The
commandment, "Do not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain",
the true lover of God laughs at. How can there be any blasphemy in
the religion of love? The more you take the name of the Lord, the
better for you, in whatever way you may do it. You are only
repeating His name because you love Him.
The third angle of the love-triangle is that love knows no rival,
for in it is always embodied the lover's highest ideal. True love
never comes until the object of our love becomes to us our highest
ideal. It may be that in many cases human love is misdirected and
misplaced, but to the person who loves, the thing he loves is
always his own highest idea. One may see his ideal in the vilest
of beings, and another in the highest of beings; nevertheless, in
every case it is the ideal alone that can be truly and intensely
loved. The highest ideal of every man is called God. Ignorant or
wise, saint or sinner, man or woman, educated or uneducated,
cultivated or uncultivated, to every human being the highest ideal
is God. The synthesis of all the highest ideals of beauty, of
sublimity, and of power gives us the completest conception of the
loving and lovable God.
These ideals exist in some shape or other in every mind naturally;
they form a part and parcel of all our minds. All the active
manifestations of human nature are struggles of those ideals to
become realised in practical life. All the various movements that
we see around us in society are caused by the various ideals in
various souls trying to come out and become concretised; what is
inside presses on to come outside. This perennially dominant
influence of the ideal is the one force, the one motive power,
that may be seen to be constantly working in the midst of mankind.
It may be after hundreds of births, after struggling through
thousands of years, that man finds that it is vain to try to make
the inner ideal mould completely the external conditions and
square well with them; after realising this he no more tries to
project his own ideal on the outside world, but worships the ideal
itself as ideal from the highest standpoint of love. This ideally
perfect ideal embraces all lower ideals. Every one admits the
truth of the saying that a lover sees Helen's beauty on an
Ethiop's brow. The man who is standing aside as a looker-on sees
that love is here misplaced, but the lover sees his Helen all the
same and does not see the Ethiop at all. Helen or Ethiop, the
objects of our love are really the centres round which our ideals
become crystallised. What is it that the world commonly worships?
Not certainly this all-embracing, ideally perfect ideal of the
supreme devotee and lover. That ideal which men and women commonly
worship is what is in themselves; every person projects his or her
own ideal on the outside world and kneels before it. That is why
we find that men who are cruel and blood-thirsty conceive of a
bloodthirsty God, because they can only love their own highest
ideal. That is why good men have a very high ideal of God, and
their ideal is indeed so very different from that of others.
CHAPTER VIII
THE GOD OF LOVE IS HIS OWN PROOF
What is the ideal of the lover who has quite passed beyond the
idea of selfishness, of bartering and bargaining, and who knows no
fear? Even to the great God such a man will say, "I will give You
my all, and I do not want anything from You; indeed there is
nothing that I can call my own." When a man has acquired this
conviction, his ideal becomes one of perfect love, one of perfect
fearlessness of love. The highest ideal of such a person has no
narrowness of particularity about it; it is love universal, love
without limits and bonds, love itself, absolute love. This grand
ideal of the religion of love is worshipped and loved absolutely
as such without the aid of any symbols or suggestions. This is the
highest form of Para-Bhakti - the worship of such an
all-comprehending ideal as the ideal; all the other forms of
Bhakti are only stages on the way to reach it.
All our failures and all our successes in following the religion
of love are on the road to the realisation of that one ideal.
Object after object is taken up, and the inner ideal is
successively projected on them all; and all such external objects
are found inadequate as exponents of the ever-expanding inner
ideal and are naturally rejected one after another. At last the
aspirant begins to think that it is vain to try to realise the
ideal in external objects, that all external objects are as
nothing when compared with the ideal itself; and, in course of
time, he acquires the power of realising the highest and the most
generalised abstract ideal entirely as an abstraction that is to
him quite alive and real. When the devotee has reached this point,
he is no more impelled to ask whether God can be demonstrated or
not, whether He is omnipotent and omniscient or not. To him He is
only the God of Love; He is the highest ideal of love, and that is
sufficient for all his purposes. He, as love, is self-evident. It
requires no proofs to demonstrate the existence of the beloved to
the lover. The magistrate-Gods of other forms of religion may
require a good deal of proof prove Them, but the Bhakta does not
and cannot think of such Gods at all. To him God exists entirely
as love. "None, O beloved, loves the husband for the husband's
sake, but it is for the sake of the Self who is in the husband
that the husband is loved; none, O beloved, loves the wife for the
wife's sake, but it is for the sake of the Self who is in the wife
that the wife is loved."
It is said by some that selfishness is the only motive power in
regard to all human activities. That also is love lowered by being
particularised. When I think of myself as comprehending the
Universal, there can surely be no selfishness in me; but when I,
by mistake, think that I am a little something, my love becomes
particularized and narrowed. The mistake consists in making the
sphere of love narrow and contracted. All things in the universe
are of divine origin and deserve to be loved; it has, however, to
be borne in mind that the love of the whole includes the love of
the parts. This whole is the God of the Bhaktas, and all the other
Gods, Fathers in Heaven, or Rulers, or Creators, and all theories
and doctrines and books have no purpose and no meaning for them,
seeing that they have through their supreme love and devotion
risen above those things altogether. When the heart is purified
and cleansed and filled to the brim with the divine nectar of
love, all other ideas of God become simply puerile and are
rejected as being inadequate or unworthy. Such is indeed the power
of Para-Bhakti or Supreme Love; and the perfected Bhakta no more
goes to see God in temples and churches; he knows no place where
he will not find Him. He finds Him in the temple as well as out of
the temple, he finds Him in the saint's saintliness as well as in
the wicked man's wickedness, because he has Him already seated in
glory in his own heart as the one Almighty inextinguishable Light
of Love which is ever shining and eternally present.
CHAPTER IX
HUMAN REPRESENTATIONS OF THE DIVINE IDEAL OF LOVE
It is impossible to express the nature of this supreme and
absolute ideal of love in human language. Even the highest flight
of human imagination is incapable of comprehending it in all its
infinite perfection and beauty. Nevertheless, the followers of the
religion of love, in its higher as well as its lower forms, in all
countries, have all along had to use the inadequate human language
to comprehend and to define their own ideal of love. Nay more,
human love itself, in all its varied forms has been made to typify
this inexpressible divine love. Man can think of divine things
only in his own human way, to us the Absolute can be expressed
only in our relative language. The whole universe is to us a
writing of the Infinite in the language of the finite. Therefore
Bhaktas make use of all the common terms associated with the
common love of humanity in relation to God and His worship through
love.
Some of the great writers on Para-Bhakti have tried to understand
and experience this divine love in so many different ways. The
lowest form in which this love is apprehended is what they call
the peaceful - the Shânta. When a man worships God without the
fire of love in him, without its madness in his brain, when his
love is just the calm commonplace love, a little higher than mere
forms and ceremonies and symbols, but not at all characterized by
the madness of intensely active love, it is said to be Shanta. We
see some people in the world who like to move on slowly, and
others who come and go like the whirlwind. The Shânta-Bhakta is
calm, peaceful, gentle.
The next higher type is that of Dâsya, i.e. servantship; it comes
when a man thinks he is the servant of the Lord. The attachment of
the faithful servant unto the master is his ideal.
The next type of love is Sakhya, friendship - "Thou art our
beloved friend." Just as a man opens his heart to his friend and
knows that the friend will never chide him for his faults but will
always try to help him, just as there is the idea of equality
between him and his friend, so equal love flows in and out between
the worshipper and his friendly God. Thus God becomes our friend,
the friend who is near, the friend to whom we may freely tell all
the tales of our lives. The innermost secrets of our hearts we may
place before Him with the great assurance of safety and support.
He is the friend whom the devotee accepts as an equal. God is
viewed here as our playmate. We may well say that we are all
playing in this universe. Just as children play their games, just
as the most glorious kings and emperors play their own games, so
is the Beloved Lord Himself in sport with this universe. He is
perfect; He does not want anything. Why should He create? Activity
is always with us for the fulfilment of a certain want, and want
always presupposes imperfection. God is perfect; He has no wants.
Why should He go on with this work of an ever-active creation?
What purpose has He in view? The stories about God creating this
world for some end or other that we imagine are good as stories,
but not otherwise. It is all really in sport; the universe is His
play going on. The whole universe must after all be a big piece of
pleasing fun to Him. If you are poor, enjoy that as fun; if you
are rich, enjoy the fun of being rich; if dangers come, it is also
good fun; if happiness comes, there is more good fun. The world is
just a playground, and we are here having good fun, having a game;
and God is with us playing all the while, and we are with Him
playing. God is our eternal playmate. How beautifully He is
playing! The play is finished when the cycle: comes to an end.
There is rest for a shorter or longer time; again all come out and
play. It is only when you forget that it is all play and that you
are also helping in the play, it is only then that misery and
sorrows come. Then the heart becomes heavy, then the world weighs
upon you with tremendous power. But as soon as you give up the
serious idea of reality as the characteristic of the changing
incidents of the three minutes of life and know it to be but a
stage on which we are playing, helping Him to play, at once misery
ceases for you. He plays in every atom; He is playing when He is
building up earths, and suns, and moons; He is playing with the
human heart, with animals, with plants. We are His chessmen; He
puts the chessmen on the board and shakes them up. He arranges us
first in one way and then in another, and we are consciously or
unconsciously helping in His play. And, oh, bliss! we are His
playmates!
The next is what is known as Vâtsalya, loving God not as our
Father but as our Child. This may look peculiar, but it is a
discipline to enable us to detach all ideas of power from the
concept of God. The idea of power brings with it awe. There should
be no awe in love. The ideas of reverence and obedience are
necessary for the formation of character; but when character is
formed, when the lover has tasted the calm, peaceful love and
tasted also a little of its intense madness, then he need talk no
more of ethics and discipline. To conceive God as mighty,
majestic, and glorious, as the Lord of the universe, or as the God
of gods, the lover says he does not care. It is to avoid this
association with God of the fear-creating sense of power that he
worships God as his own child. The mother and the father are not
moved by awe in relation to the child; they cannot have any
reverence for the child. They cannot think of asking any favour
from the child. The child's position is always that of the
receiver, and out of love for the child the parents will give up
their bodies a hundred times over. A thousand lives they will
sacrifice for that one child of theirs, and, therefore, God is
loved as a child. This idea of loving God as a child comes into
existence and grows naturally among those religious sects which
believe in the incarnation of God. For the Mohammedans it is
impossible to have this idea of God as a child; they will shrink
from it with a kind of horror. But the Christian and the Hindu can
realise it easily, because they have the baby Jesus and the baby
Krishna. The women in India often look upon themselves as
Krishna's mother; Christian mothers also may take up the idea that
they are Christ's mothers, and it will bring to the West the
knowledge of God's Divine Motherhood which they so much need. The
superstitions of awe and reverence in relation to God are deeply
rooted in the bears of our hearts, and it takes long years to sink
entirely in love our ideas of reverence and veneration, of awe and
majesty and glory with regard to God.
There is one more human representation of the divine ideal of
love. It is known as Madhura, sweet, and is the highest of all
such representations. It is indeed based on the highest
manifestation of love in this world, and this love is also the
strongest known to man. What love shakes the whole nature of man,
what love runs through every atom of his being - makes him mad,
makes him forget his own nature, transforms him, makes him either
a God or a demon - as the love between man and woman. In this
sweet representation of divine love God is our husband. We are all
women; there are no men in this world; there is but One man, and
this is He, our Beloved. All that love which man gives to woman,
or woman to man, has her to be given up to the Lord.
All the different kinds of love which we see in the world, and
with which we are more or less playing merely, have God as the one
goal; but unfortunately, man does not know the infinite ocean into
which this mighty river of love is constantly flowing, and so,
foolishly, he often tries to direct it to little dolls of human
beings. The tremendous love for the child that is in human nature
is not for the little doll of a child; if you bestow it blindly
and exclusively on the child, you will suffer in consequence. But
through such suffering will come the awakening by which you are
sure to find out that the love which is in you, if it is given to
any human being, will sooner or later bring pain and sorrow as the
result. Our love must, therefore, be given to the Highest One who
never dies and never changes, to Him in the ocean of whose love
there is neither ebb nor flow. Love must get to its right
destination, it must go unto Him who is really the infinite ocean
of love. All rivers flow into the ocean. Even the drop of water
coming down from the mountain side cannot stop its course after
reaching a brook or a river, however big it may be; at last even
that drop somehow does find its way to the ocean. God is the one
goal of all our passions and emotions. If you want to be angry, be
angry with Him. Chide your Beloved, chide your Friend. Whom else
can you safely chide? Mortal man will not patiently put up with
your anger; there will be a reaction. If you are angry with me I
am sure quickly to react, because I cannot patiently put up with
your anger. Say unto the Beloved, "Why do You not come to me; why
do You leave me thus alone?" Where is there any enjoyment but in
Him? What enjoyment can there be in little clods of earth? It is
the crystallised essence of infinite enjoyment that we have to
seek, and that is in God. Let all our passions and emotions go up
unto Him. They are meant for Him, for if they miss their mark and
go lower, they become vile; and when they go straight to the mark,
to the Lord, even the lowest of them becomes transfigured. All the
energies of the human body and mind, howsoever they may express
themselves, have the Lord as their one goal, as their Ekâyana. All
loves and all passions of the human heart must go to God. He is
the Beloved. Whom else can this heart love? He is the most
beautiful, the most sublime, He is beauty itself, sublimity
itself. Who in this universe is more beautiful than He? Who in
this universe is more fit to become the husband than He? Who in
this universe is fitter to be loved than He? So let Him be the
husband, let Him be the Beloved.
Often it so happens that divine lovers who sing of this divine
love accept the language of human love in all its aspects as
adequate to describe it. Fools do not understand this; they never
will. They look at it only with the physical eye. They do not
understand the mad throes of this spiritual love. How can they?
"For one kiss of Thy lips, O Beloved! One who has been kissed by
Thee, has his thirst for Thee increasing forever, all his sorrows
vanish, and he forgets all things except Thee alone." Aspire after
that kiss of the Beloved, that touch of His lips which makes the
Bhakta mad, which makes of man a god. To him, who has been blessed
with such a kiss, the whole of nature changes, worlds vanish, suns
and moons die out, and the universe itself melts away into that
one infinite ocean of love. That is the perfection of the madness
of love
Ay, the true spiritual lover does not rest even there; even the
love of husband and wife is not mad enough for him. The Bhaktas
take up also the idea of illegitimate love, because it is so
strong; the impropriety of it is not at all the thing they have in
view. The nature if this love is such that the more obstructions
there are for its free play, the more passionate it becomes. The
love between husband and wife is smooth, there are no obstructions
there. So the Bhaktas take up the idea of a girl who is in love
with her own beloved, and her mother or father or husband objects
to such love; and the more anybody obstructs the course of her
love, so much the more is her love tending to grow in strength.
Human language cannot describe how Krishna in the groves of Vrindâ
was madly loved, how at the sound of his voice the ever-blessed
Gopis rushed out to meet him, forgetting everything, forgetting
this world and its ties, its duties, its joys, and its sorrows.
Man, O man, you speak of divine love and at the same time are able
to attend to all the vanities of this world - are you sincere?
"Where Râma is, there is no room for any desire - where desire is,
there is no room for Rama; these never coexist - like light and
darkness they are never together."
CHAPTER X
CONCLUSION
When this highest ideal of love is reached, philosophy is thrown
away; who will then care for it? Freedom, Salvation, Nirvâna - all
are thrown away; who cares to become free while in the enjoyment
of divine love? "Lord, I do not want wealth, nor friends, nor
beauty, nor learning, nor even freedom; let me be born again and
again, and be Thou ever my Love. Be Thou ever and ever my Love."
"Who cares to become sugar?" says the Bhakta, "I want to taste
sugar." Who will then desire to become free and one with God? "I
may know that I am He; yet will I take myself away from Him and
become different, so that I may enjoy the Beloved." That is what
the Bhakta says. Love for love's sake is his highest enjoyment.
Who will not be bound hand and foot a thousand times over to enjoy
the Beloved? No Bhakta cares for anything except love, except to
love and to be loved. His unworldly love is like the tide rushing
up the river; this lover goes up the river against the current.
The world calls him mad. I know one whom the world used to call
mad, and this was his answer: "My friends, the whole world is a
lunatic asylum. Some are mad after worldly love, some after name,
some after fame, some after money, some after salvation and going
to heaven. In this big lunatic asylum I am also mad, I am mad
after God. If you are mad after money, I am mad after God. You are
mad; so am I. I think my madness is after all the best." The true
Bhakta's love is this burning madness before which everything else
vanishes for him. The whole universe is to him full of love and
love alone; that is how it seems to the lover. So when a man has
this love in him, he becomes eternally blessed, eternally happy.
This blessed madness of divine love alone can cure for ever the
disease of the world that is in us. With desire, selfishness has
vanished. He has drawn near to God, he has thrown off all those
vain desires of which he was full before.
We all have to begin as dualists in the religion of love. God is
to us a separate Being, and we feel ourselves to be separate
beings also. Love then comes in the middle, and man begins to
approach God, and God also comes nearer and nearer to man. Man
takes up all the various relationships of life, as father, as
mother, as son, as friend, as master, as lover, and projects them
on his ideal of love, on his God. To him God exists as all these,
and the last point of his progress is reached when he feels that
he has become absolutely merged in the object of his worship. We
all begin with love for ourselves, and the unfair claims of the
little self-make even love selfish. At last, however, comes the
full blaze of light, in which this little self is seen to have
become one with the Infinite. Man himself is transfigured in the
presence of this Light of Love, and he realises at last the
beautiful and inspiring truth that Love, the Lover, and the
Beloved are One.